I stumble into my sex like most teens of my generation. Looking at playboy and sneaking 8mm porn. Masturbation and straight sex with a neighbor girl. Fewer girls were promiscuous back then. Threesome and group sex were not the norm. Fast forward to today. What is normal and routine? I believe I know the answer, but would like to hear from the 20/30 something group. Men or women What is your sex life like in today era? Is casual sex more accepted and easy to get? Let’s have a conversation. What say you?
I think sex is more behind the doors these days. Ive always said most hide who the really are sexually out of fear. Fear of what people might think of them. Thats also what i feel causes so many relationships to fail. 1 person wants to try something but not sure how to approach the situation. they also have to consider what the other wants. if the male wants a FFM threesome but also has to consider if he can go through a MMF threesome to appease his partner. me personally mostly i dont care. Ive had people talk dirty but apprehensive that it might get awkward. I love and say awkward doesnt phase me. I was flirting with my cousins ex wife and getting pictures from her. Most would be turned off she was with my family at one point but not me.
There is nothing new under the sun. I very much doubt more people are having sex more now then my high school days between 1979-83. I would say 70% of boys had it before graduating, and prolly about the same for girls. The remaining 30% were either religious or unfortunately couldn't attract someone to do it. By the time I graduated high school I probably had had sex at least 50 times. I doubt that is really that high.
I don't think there is any more sex than when I was younger. The biggest difference is that people are exposed to more sexual information/misinformation through the internet. Sex expectations have changed. For example, when i dated, nice girls didn't do oral, but it is expected these days.
I wouldn't say 70% of the people I went to school with had sex before they graduated haha, I wouldn't even go close to that number if I was being honest. Probably more like 20%. 15 years ago of course sex was becoming a big deal at school but yeah anyone who claimed to have had sex 50 times was probably definitely lying. but that's what boys do at school they make up stories.
My sex life "then" was pretty much non existent as a teenager. Hitting my 20's got me over the hump and my sex life exploded. Since then I've had ups and downs but remained viral. "Now" I have sex with a partner once, maybe twice a month. Masturbation fills the void in between encounters and I am satisfied with what I have. I only hope to be able to have sex for years to come as I get older. Advances in medicine has helped a lot and I hope will continue to do so.
I always wanted girls but was so shy and little my first experance was by force in the showers by a bunch of bullies who made me give them blowjobs . I was 14 and I was scared to death and after that I started giving head all the time I dident like the tast of cum at first but I liked the way it felt in my mouth and I liked handling a hard dick.I was 17 whene I got my first pussy and I married her at 18.Divorced at 19.and took a buss to Las Vegas stayed with family and discovered porn shops and glory holes and drugs lsd was the best.Igot the tast of cum and eating pussy sucking dick cum all over me and I had a lot of friends I tried annal a few times it hurt to much. I deep throat the 4 dicks one after an other I miss those days. Now I live alone use dildoes deep in my ass and down my throat
When I was a teen porn was hard to get. Locker room talk is how I learned what a lot of things were. There was also a lot of experimentation with my best friend. My first girlfriend introduced me to cunnilingus. When I got married in my 20s we did all the things young lovers do, new positions, oral, different locations, etc. My wife was strictly against anal, and other than one near opportunity, never talked of an open marriage or swapping partners. Now, in my 40s, we are beginning to explore anal. I've acquire a taste for rimming (and my wife has acquired a taste for enjoying it). We've also each had one other sexual partner to change things up. Porn has been a part of our relationship for nearly a decade as we both explore each other's search history to get ideas of what they like (this is how she discovered my desire to be pegged, which is amazing btw). I guess I would say as we have gotten older, and trust each other more, we have gotten more open minded toward sex.
