Right person can do both for you and you can return the same equality to them. Why would you not expect to deliver that to any relationship and expect the same in return. Strange question.
I was wrong........and I even started to think so after reading more of your posts. I have not had much stability all my life......and I don't care. I would rather deal with the chaos, so I can savour the intensity of passion. It is much like the freedom or security choice, one takes away from the other.