How turned on are you at hearing your partner talk of having sex with previous lovers? My wife and I talk an awful lot about what we've got up to in our past and we both get incredibly turned on by this. I love hearing what my wife's done with other men; places,positions,acts,etc. Similarly, she loves me to tell het the filthy things I've done with other women,especially ad I'm fingering her and kissing her neck. Do any couples out there enjoy this too?
Although we first met about 25 years ago I only just got together with my girlfriend a few years ago and have been living together for a year. Upon first getting together she felt obligated to tell me how many men she had slept with. It then became a conversation about what they did tegether, her own sexual evolvement, how she became to understand what she enjoyed and on and on. She then demanded the same information out of me which put me in a bit of an awkward position as I had long stopped thinking about any of that. Over time we have now jarred memories and share them. I think it means more to her than it does to me though. I do have to admit there are a couple guys/encounters that she has described that sparked quite a bit of interest in me but for the most part I can't say it does much more for me than try to figure out what connections were made and what ones were lost.
It doesn't turn me on much, because it sounds like she was with a bunch of duds for the most part. Lots of get it done quick sort of guys. I had never been with anyone nearly as exciting as her either so neither one of talk about the past a whole lot. We are just really digging what we have got going on now. Nothing better then being with a lover on the same wave length as you that gets that sex is way more then just intercourse.
Not at all. What's past is passed! Of course you can demonstrate what you learned, however, in the best possible way.