Your first tingly feeling

Hello,
With regards to this person making a sexual harrassment at work... Steer clear because if you do that then it means your not doing what they say.. With regards to the 13 year old... Did you say you were 18?? If so are you thinking of becoming arrested and forced to sign a sex offenders register (If applied in your country). Whether he gives consent or not its still a criminal offence until he reaches the legal age..
Plying him with booze and cigarettes is a cowardly thing to do to a 13 year old.. I have put two and two together and worked out you may have a crush on him which you may not be able to help BUT plying him with alcohol to get him drunk means your planning to rape him.. That is also a criminal offence.. At the moment you havent got any record or anything and I would strongly suggst that you take steps to either seek mental help or analyize yourself and think is it worth a criminal record and a life time of abuse??

Regards

The_Warden

 

Although I consider myself straight(well okay,trying to come to terms that I'm bi?) I found a box full of my dad's straight porn including some with Traci Lords which I still remember to this day. God damn,for a 16 year old porn star she was a pro!!

I was about 7 or 8 years old & I snuck them to my babysitter's house because she had a son who was about 5 years older then me & thought he would think I was cool if I showed him what I found. So I spent the night one night while we watched,he actually taught me how to masturbate because I had never done it before. He came all over his hand then decided he was going to show me how to do it right. I still don't think I ever came being that I was only EIGHT!!

We continued to play every once & again by looking at some of his Playboys. He would have me stroke him off & I never found it odd,I just did it. Til he wanted me to put my penis in his ass. I remember it hurting me more while he just kind of moaned. It didn't last long.

That was enough to pique my curiosity. I asked him to do it to me. Of course he was older & bigger so it never really went "in" but just kind of placed it between my buttcheeks & rubbed it between them. I loved the way it felt because it was a new feeling but I also had nothing else to compare it to.

The last straw was when he got another kid to "join" us. Turns out,he was doing the same thing to this kid that I didn't know about. He made us kiss,
play with each others genitals & it all came out when I actually gave that kid a hickey on his neck. I was scared shitless & tried to rub it off with my hands! lol. Of course,the babysitter told our parents & they didn't know WHAT to think happened. The only thing I got in trouble for was for stealing my dad's porn flicks & he never questioned me or my sexuality at all. So I guess to this day is why I love women but I like a big cock as well,although I could never have "feelings" for a guy. Strictly sexual.

 

I have a question...somebody please answer me!!

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE


I'm a male, at a phase of my life where I'm not exactly sure if im bisexual straight or gay. I know one thing for sure is, I got my first "tingly" feeling when I was 17, now 24, and only felt this way with other girls, never a guy. I have mostly guy friends, alot of guy friends i might add, and I've never felt an emotional attraction to guys before. I think i fell in love once, with a girl, but's it's been almost 3 years since, and I still miss her and think about her atleast once a day, and still get that tingly feeling ocassionaly.

But the weird thing is, when I was about 18/19, I had a dream about gay sex, and I was participating. I woke up in disgust, and confusion, and in a way....it's haunted me ever since. I havn't been sure about myself and even lost my confidence in my sexualioty. Another weird thing is occasionally I see a guy, and I think he's attractive. But I don't get feelings or an emotional attraction the same way as I do with girls. It's more like, oh, that's a pretty flower, or that's a nice car, and I wouldn't have feelings with a car or a flower. But does this still mean I'm gay?


I"m totally confuised.......................some1 please help.!!

 

Well we're good friends now and i talk with him a whole lot. i think he likes me because lets just say he has some wondering eyes heh heh... Anyway I'm in his room for a field trip and i'll see what unfolds.

 

It's difficult to make statements about anything such as this over the internet as I don't live out your experience. But it doesn't sound like you're gay. "Gay" "Bisexual" and "Straight" are not really as clearly defined as some might think. I think the easiest way of thinking of it is the Kinsey Scale. On the Kinsey Scale sexual orientation is determined by a set of corresponding numbers. The scale ranges from 0 to 6; with 0 being exclusively straight and 6 being exclusively gay. No one, however, will find themselves right on 0 or 6. "Straight" can perhaps be anything 1 or below (though at which point you have shifted orientations is subjective), which allows for the occasional attraction to the same sex. I'd put myself somewhere above 5 on the scale. Though, for seemingly odd reasons, I've found a few women attractive. They, however, are in no way, of the same worth as my capacity for attraction to guys.

Another, and perhaps less technical, way to determine one's orientation is emotional attraction. There is a term "affectional orientation" which is used to describe this (and a lot prefer this because it leads to less confusion when strange attractions arise). I could not conceive of falling in love with anyone but another guy; this making me gay. With you, however, there is presumably little or no capacity to fall in love with a member of the same sex; making you straight.

A critique of mine of the affectional system as a means of determining orientation is lack of accounting for societal insinuation. This will be that society, on a large scale, renders it such that our true desires are circumvented in favor of conventionality. However, this does not apply to you because homosexuality is the anomaly in question.

So, in conclusion, I'd say, albeit with only the information you have provided, that you are straight. :sunglasse

 

Shit. Didn't notice the date on that post. Oh well, you might still see it.

 

Hmm, I had a major crush on a girl in my dance class when I was 10. And throughout middle school, Madonna was the constant object of my homosexual affection. Gah, the "Erotica" video made me realize that I did actually like girls.

 

I always looked at girls differently than guys and could so see myself dating a girl. I had minor crushes, but I had a HUGE crush on my RA freshman year of college. Too bad she was straight. Ironically, I became an RA in an all girls dorm, and one of my residents developed a huge crush on me. We've been dating since March.

 

i was pretty much in total denial about my sexuality until i fell in love with Rufus Wainwright, i'd never had a crush quite like that before

i think i was about 13 when i noticed that my straight male best friend is actually a very handsome guy, but i thought nothing of it, you can think someone is good looking without being gay and i didn't want to kiss/fuck him or anything. but that lead onto finding men on tv attractive in a way i hadn't done before, and being really turned on by the thought of being intimate with a man.

 

Mine was in 6th grade with my friend matt. He went to the bathroom and came back out just wearing boxers and we both got naked and masterbated together we ended up masterbating each other this went on like 3 times then we stopped talking...i wonder what happened to him...

 

at boyscout camp!!! that was a total sausage fest

 

i guess mines right now

 

I'm not really certain; ever since I was little I was kissing girls and "liking" them, but it wasn't until three years ago when I fell for one of my best friends.

She still doesn't know...which is kinda depressing.

 

When I was ten, I guess ... I pretended to myself that I had crushes on boys because it seemed like that was what you were supposed to do; but then, meanwhile I was regularly making out with my best girl friend. We had sleepovers every night and I would sleep in her bed, and she'd touch me or pinch me when my parents weren't looking (my mom wondered why I was always yelping). But it wasn't till I was 14 that it really hit me, even though I'd had sexual thoughts about women before.

 

My first "Real" not just WONDERING feeling was when I was 13, I was a rocker, and she was a cheerleder, in the same grade as me ,who lived accross the street. She was always nice to me , not stuck up like the other girls, and I didnt catch on to what she was after till she invited me over to her house when her mom wasnt home!
we were together a couple of years from that day on, in secret , of course.

 

I fell in love with my best friend in 6th grade, then she moved away and told my other friends I was gay, and I became really depressed and hid inside myself for a long time til I came out. but I was always falling in love with my close friends, I knew, just noboby else did.

 

The first time a girl toched me I was so extatic that my panties fell to the floor and I was really embarrassed as I thought I this would be my first gay experience I had a feeling that I was a lesbian but it was short lived as she pointed out that girls dont have a penis but I had one. Then I realised that I was a male lesbian and have been having sex with girls ever since. Someone told me that this is called "being straight" - call it what you want its brilliant fun. Why care if you are gay or bi or straight just enjoy it - Woody Allen said "sex is the most fun I ever had without laughing"

probly graduated to the oral university but left you in the 6th grade

 

have you seen 'L word' theres a male lesbian on that
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yeah I just thought it might be a wiseguy thing to write a bizzare and untruthful story - its called humour - my only hope was to make someone - anyone laugh