Your first man-to-man kiss?!

I had fantasized & masturbated & dildo-fucked myself many times in preparing myself emotionally and physically (especially stretching my ass to take its first real hard dick!) for my 'first time', and, sure enough, the first man I climbed into bed with wanted to kiss me! But I had thought about that, too, and didn't hesitate; I really liked it right from the start, and the wider I opened my mouth for him, the hotter both of us got for each other -- I think that if he'd kept that hot, fluttering tongue going in there for half-a-minute more I would have cum all over myself, and that the reason he pulled away when he did was to keep from cumming himself! Mmmm, I still remember the joy of that first time, the thrill & breath-taking wonder of that first ass-fucking, the emotional high of getting my first load poured out of his body into mine so deep inside me there ...

Would LOVE to hear about your first amorous man-to-man kiss, please!

 

I had been mutually sucking other guys for a couple years, mostly married men so the desire never crossed any of our minds. However, I did hook-up with a gay man through Craigslist looking for mutual oral with a married man. I replied to his ad, we exchanged photos and I wanted his cock real bad! It was BIG, he said 9 1/2" and I was almost afraid my 8" would turn him off but he wanted mine too so he provided his address, I showered, and hit the road. He was pretty good looking, not that I really cared because I wanted that gorgeous cock in my mouth so his looks didn't much matter. We proceeded up to his bedroom and began removing our clothes and once naked I asked if I could drop to my knees as he was standing and suck on his cock...There I go...gobbling up his flaccid cock into my mouth, taking it all in feeling it growing hard in my mouth and enjoying it so much I'm getting hard myself. After about 20 minutes we climbed into bed so I could continue sucking his cock as he sat up against the headboard so I could make eye contact while swallowing his beautiful cock. It took numerous tries but I finally took him balls deep and was so proud of myself. He says "You enjoy sucking that cock?"...I replied..."I do!" He says, you seem to be really enjoying yourself so if you don't mind please continue as I'm not really in the sucking mood myself today and really enjoying your oral skills. I continued on for almost 45 more minutes when I finally looked up and asked if he was ever going to cum. He said, I just did the last time you deep throated me...I then tasted his cum as I was sucking him clean. He then asked if I would kiss him. I wasn't into kissing another man but he asked so nice and I wanted to keep sucking his cock so I crawled up and embraced him and started kissing him. It got deeply passionate and he was a great kisser. My cock is so hard and spewing pre-cum big time as I embraced him for more deep kisses when all of a sudden I started cumming all over his tummy as I was on top of him...I paused to inform, he pulled me back in for more and said just cum sweaty, cum all over me. Never did I expect that kissing another man would turn me on so much and trigger an orgasm. Mind you, I was sucking his cock for almost an hour which had me raging hard and dripping pre-cum. I sucked three loads out of him that afternoon thinking I'd be there maybe an hour but spent three hours with him. The second and thirds loads I got a real good taste of and reconnected with him three more times but had to cut it off as he wanted a relationship and I had no intention of leaving my wife. I didn't kiss another man until about a year ago (20 yrs. later) when Tom, who is our boyfriend (second wife and I) slapped one on me and he too is a great kisser.

 

Mmmmm, that is so hot, so shivery-feeling to hear you relate how you discovered how kissing can elevate time in bed with another man from an enjoyable interlude of sexual interaction to an intensely personal, excruciatingly intimate event between two consenting males ... the bond that forms when two people kiss that way transcends even the deepest-reaching feelings of shared sex, is so strong, tying those two people together in that way forever. I have forgotten some of the men that have just laid me down or bent me over a bed or the tailgate of a truck & fucked me, but I well remember a warm closeness to ALL the men who have kissed me ...

Thanks for sharing that ...

 

The first man I kissed was the very first guy I ever hookwd up with when I was 20 years old. It just felt RIGHT... and TOTALLY natural to me. Unlike a LOT of "Bisexual" guys, I happen to REALLY enjoy kissing, making out, cuddling, holding hands... And even showering with another guy

 

I'd sucked cock with the same friend for 4-5 years back in HS/college. Never once thought about kissing the dude. Well decades later I found myself at the house of my wife's gay friend. My wife has told me that he had the hots for me. He's Handsome, about my age, and lest I say HOT. Kissing him was out of this world hot! Open mouths, tongues, hands everywhere. He felt huge in his pants. I couldn't stay long, but enjoyed every minute of our makeout session. He left me wanting more of him, and I still do. He could do anything he wanted with me.

 

I didn’t ever have those kinds of desires to kiss but after my first fuck buddy and I got older we did. One night he was on top of me missionary with my legs up, pounding, super horny, he leaned down and started kissing me. I felt vulnerable, but I went with it. In the moment it was hot and very erotic. I could feel his erection swelling to another level. There were a few times that he grabbed me and started kissing before sex but more often than not it was during the act.

 

Oh yeah, Tom leaned down the last time he was fucking me and kissed me just as I came in my wife's mouth and YES his cock got as hard as concrete.

 

Love your attitude! I feel the same!

 

I never have kissed a guy except when he kisses me! I really don't like it but go along with it when things get hot but it doesn't turn me on! Licking his head is a awesome thing for me except sucking nothing beat's that!

 

For me, kissing has always been associated with emotional connection. Because of that, I had only kissed my wife, not the men that I have been with. That changed though when I finally gave in to a guy who wanted to date me. He had no problem getting me into his bed and he fucked me in several different positions always trying to kiss me, but I would refuse him. He, however, refused to take "no" for an answer. He had me pinned beneath him in missionary and held my arms tight back over my head. I couldn't move and he brought his mouth to mine. I stopped resisting and gave in. For the next ten minutes he fucked me with a deep, slow and sensuous movement all the while gently kissing my mouth and neck. The effect it had on me was not to to initiate an emotional connection but rather to enhance his domination of me. When he tensed up and released his sperm deep inside me, it was me who was kissing him.

 

I was always against the idea of kissing a guy. It did nothing for me at least the idea of it anyway. For whatever reason it was too far like it made sex with a guy more about him that his penis I was interested in. Then a few years ago I was watching porn and the guys were missionary and kissing and my damn cock twinged. Can’t deny that I guess so now it’s a pretty big fantasy at least. If I ever let a guy take my ass I’ll most likely kiss.

 

Gay men tend to want passionate kissing. My first truly passionate guy-kissing experience was with a gay man. He was much bigger physically than me. He really held me close and kissed me deeply as I stroked him, both of us naked on a warm summer day on the shore of the Columbia River.

That was one of those moments when I realized how rich and complex my sexual psyche could be. It felt so good to bond with this powerful man so completely.

 

As someone who, as most of you know, has yet to be with a guy, I am getting aroused by your stories of kissing your same sex partners. Kissing really brings sex partners closer on another level. And as I have gone along my journey of understanding and accepting my desires for the same sex, I have been growing to accept, and embrace, my desire to be close with a man I would sleep with. I seek an openness with a man that's not just physical but also emotional. I'll accept any comfortable, safe and consensual sexual experience, I guess, but I'm not looking to fuck as much as to make love. Yes, make love with another guy. (Please forgive me. I kind of have to keep reminding myself I have come a very long way with what I'm open to.) I want a kiss to be an invitation to a deep part of each other. I want to feel close to my male partners during lovemaking, and afterwards. I want that bond. It makes the experience unique and personalized.
So how far do I want to take this? A one time experience? Friendship with benefits? Maybe even...dating each other as boyfriend and boyfriend? These are questions I didn't dare think of just a few years ago. But now I want to be open with myself and open to the possibilities of happiness.
Sorry I went off topic. Kissing a guy and its implications really got me thinking about what I'm looking for.

 

This notion of bonding with a powerful man speaks to my post regarding kissing. First giving in to him and allowing him to kiss me and then taking the initiative to kiss him while he climaxed deep inside of my body was a demonstration of how incredibly turned on I was to his power and control over me. I bonded with his masculine essence.

 

Yes, your post reminded me of my experience. You never know what you are going to learn with a new lover.

 

I’ve only kissed one guy and it wasn’t my thing. Maybe he just wasn’t a very good kisser. I’ve been conditioned to a woman’s kiss and it’s what I enjoy.

 

First guy I had sex with was my gay sex partn for a couple years and we never ever kissed and the sex was mostly his cock to my mouth and ass.Nothing really sensual just me being used for his enjoyment.I thought that was the way to have sex with another male.My next partner was when I was 18 and with him I learned really just how amazing sex with another man can be .And besides including reach around a ,caressing,mutual oral also included kissing .From then on I just about always kissed my same sex partners or tried to at least .I went without sex with a man for a long time 15+years when I resumed same sex activities I always tried to include kissing .I had quite a few partners in those couple years and the kissing always made the sex hotter a couple partners shunned me but most didn’t the ones that did we did not have more adventures other then the single one

 

The first time I was with a guy my intention was very simple. I had been curious since high school, and this was someone I had known since middle school. We made plans to meet up and he knew all I really wanted to do was mutual oral. When we started hooking up he began to stroke my cock and kiss my neck. At this point he knew I had no intentions on kissing. He slowly worked his way down my body and began to suck my nipples. Now, I have very sensitive nipples. I lost it at that point. It all just felt so amazing. I grabbed him, pulled him tight towards me, and began kissing him. I kissed him deep and hard and I never wanted to stop. He knew how turned on I was. We did so much more than I planned that day and it was amazing.

 

A guy I met at a crowded bar took me to his place, and I thought I wasn't really into kissing guys... but when he pulled out his cock, I went down on him. He started taking off his clothes, and he started taking mine off. He went to kiss me, but I kind of kept my lips closed. So, instead, he grasped my ass to pull me closer to him, and he started licking my neck up to my earlobe, and in my ear. I moaned, and he moved to kiss me on my lips, and bit me gently on my lower lip. That's when I got so aroused, I started to kiss him back. His tongue was a little rougher than a woman's, and bigger, but I liked it. The best part of kissing a man is when he's fucking me in the ass, and I'm starting to moan loudly because I'm about to cum.

 

My first gay experience was about 6 years ago when I was 43. It was in Seattle at a Jack-off club. I played with two guys cocks but I couldn't stay hard myself. No kissing involved. My second experience was about a year later. Hooked up with a guy at a hotel and played with his hard cock then sucked him off twice. I briefly got hard but couldn't stay hard long enough for him to play with my cock or suck me. He wasn't interested in kissing men and I was just attracted to his cock anyway. Once upon a time I was disgusted by the idea of hugging, caressing, or kissing another man. Nowadays the idea is a HUGE turn on for me. Next time I get the opportunity to be with a man I want to find him attractive and he is into kissing men. Now THAT will keep me hard.