You won't believe what happened to me!

glad to hear this!

 

I think Garrett might want to come out to his friends and tell them about us. What do you guys think? Is this a good idea?

 

They will figure it out eventually....so, yes, I think he should !!!

 

I totally think it's the way to go, but you both just have to make sure you're ready first.

 

Can I be a wet blanket so to speak just for a second?? Don't get me wrong please, I think that what is happening for you is sooo wonderful, and I am totally thrilled for you. By no means do I want to say anything that would upset anyone, so please don't take it as such, but I guess it seems to me that things are moving VERY rapidly. I mean you went from this guy just being someone you were hanging out with to now breaking up with his girlfriend (which was totally the right thing to do) to know telling his friends....I guess in my eyes it seems like its spiraling so fast, I just would HATE for anything negative to come of your new relationship because it was going so fast like this..does that make sense?? IMHO--maybe just slow down a tad bit and enjoy just being with eachother, let things die down from the breakup with the girlfriend. There may be some flack there for him already, depending on what he told her the reasons were for the break-up. I would hate for YOU to start getting alot of S*** in school or socially because of the current situation. Like I said, I was not trying to upset or hurt anyone, I just have read your posts and that was the one thing that was plagueing my mind toward the end. I wish you all the happiness with your Garrett. Good Luck and Be Safe!!!!

 

**claps hands ** well worth a listen man....

 

I'll second that last advice
S

 

Your right. I'll talk to Garrett and see if we can just slow down and enjoy eachother before we start coming out. But when we are ready we will tell everyone we feel the need to. Anyway, Garrett wants me to come over to his house. He's had kind of a bad day and I guess he wants to take out by having brutal sex with me. I can't wait! I hope he spanks me and bites me! I just love to comfort him. Well I'll report back later. Bye.

 

Bye......stay safe !

 

Dang! That was brutal. Poor Garrett. He must have been in a pretty bad mood. I loved every minute of it. My ass is still sore. The best part was after he was so rough in bed he took me into his arms and stroked me and told me how much he loved me and just held me. It was wonderful. I love having wild sex with him. Well talk to you later guys.

 

Oh, and don't worry erzebet. We were safe. Garrett got a hold of some condoms for us. Anyway, he's staying over tonight. I can't wait to get in bed with him. This is going to be a good night. Anyway, I talked to him about coming out to everyone, and he agreed that it is best that we just wait and enjoy our relationship. Well good night everybody. Talk to you tomorrow.

 

Good nite baby boy

 

Oh, my God! Something terrible has happened. My parents went out to lunch and came back earlier than they said they would. They came in my room without knocking and found Garrett and me in bed. They both left the house and so did Garrett. My parents went to a dinner party they already had scheduled. What do you guys think I should do when they come back?

 

Try to stay calm. One thing I would recommend is pouring cold water on your wrists... it cools your blood, therefor helping keep you calm. When they bring it up, there are a couple things I would mention. 1) You guys are being safe. 2) If you need something to come back at them with for some reason, you could say that they should knock and respect your privacy.

I want to help you... I really do. But I don't know what else to tell you. You'll be in my thoughts.

 

I guess the cat's out of the bag so to speak. just take things one step at a time as they come up. if you parents ask, be prepared as to what you're going to say. do they know Garrett's family ? how did Garrett react ?

good luck,
peace out,
bob

 

No they don't know Garrett's family. How did Garrett react? Well he was embarrassed. But then again who wouldn't be when the parents of your lover come in and find you humping your lover. My parents didn't say anything, they just stood there looking shocked for a moment and then just turned and left. Then Garrett says he has to get home and gets dressed and leaves with out another word. My parents should be home by 11.

 

Well good luck explaining things to them. Parents seem to not want to believe that their kids have become sexually active. You should probably be pretty honest, as they'll hopefully be most trusting of you that way, rather than the possibility of catching you in a lie and losing their trust.

 

I hope all goes well...just remember that your parents love you...even if they can get hysterical and say things that sound terrible at the time...its not easy being on their end either. Good luck little brother.

 

How Horrible!! I hope that things end up okay. I can say --I don't think I would react very well either if I had walked in on my son like that, as I'm sure that he would be equally as disturbed to walk in on my and his dad...LOL! Hopefully they have a chance to clear their heads and think about the situation before they talk to you . I may have missed it somewhere, but had you come out to your parents previously??? Good Luck!!

 

No, I had not come out to them. But it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. Here's what happened: They came home and as soon as they walk in my mother says, "How long?" I say, "A couple of weeks." There is a moment of silence, and then I point out to them that we were safe. "Good" says my mother. Then I asked them if I was allowed to see Garrett. They said yes but that they didn't want us having sex anymore because we are too young. They said we would talk about this more tomorrow and they went to bed. Well, it is tomorrow and they still haven't talked to me. I think they're avoiding me.