you obviously have flaws

Being big is not a flaw, it is the result of certain functions within our bodies. Do you like to eat? Is that a flaw? We do however have a choice to enjoy as much food as we want to or often maybe we eat food because it satisfies a unmet need or helps us to cope (maybe not the best way to cope but I know that it helps at times). Maybe what many see as flaws is actually a tendency of a conditioned behavior.

Some so-called flaws may just be part of who we are and we can accept or choose to re-evaluate the trade off. Some flaws maybe be emotionally self-destructive patterns where we constantly undermine our very own happiness, and fail to see our own actions as the source of our own unhappiness.

We often fall victim to the certain patterns of thought in our mind. I really believe that all it takes is to see and decide for ourselves is thatwe come to the conclusion that " I have been down that road and I know where that road goes; and I no longer want to go there anymore".

We can make choices and our choices are what either empowers or vnquishes that power. That does not mean we are flawed and some victim of a permenant trait. We all make mistakes but just maybe none of us are flawed the world has just taught us to think we are.

 

Just because it came with your body doesn't mean it's not a flaw.

Then again, one person's flaw is another person's fantasy. A weird person's fantasy, but still.

 

going down on a fit young girl after she has been jogging is way different than going down on a''big'' girl after she has been jogging...i mean no disrespect...its just my personal ''i'd rather be dead''' thing

yes...i like to think i make up for occasionally being seen as mean by my remarkable ability to do other things well...

so this goddamned thread got all deep and shit...i actually meant things like

you talk way to much
you snoop and blab about your snooping
you have a smelly cha cha
you have a horrible screeching laugh that makes me want to stab you
you get stupid when you drink
you are pretty stupid sober
you are manipulative
you are a superficial bitch

 

I don't have flaws...



It's all them other people that have flaws.

 

rolling, your questions can't be answered without getting all deep and shit, as you say. alternative thinker was right on in the response - flaws are part of who we are and it's important to explore them, even if you can't do a damn thing about them. for instance, one of your flaws might be that you are dating someone who is a manipulative, superficial bitch. perhaps you should ask yourself why you date people who do the annoying things you identified. no relationships or personal interactions are perfect, but part of loving our friends, our partners, and ourselves is accepting all flaws and irks. if the flaws and irks are too much to bear, get out and thereafter reflect on why you put yourself in such situations. adjust your life around a bit and you might find that you aren't hanging out with such annoying peeps in the future. imho.

 

nice try jenjup...kinda obvious your reply is a fishing expedition to see if i am single or not........dont be shy honey......lol....i have been single for a few years now.......no crazies here