I have a feeling he goes for women who are waaaaay out of his league and ignores the less physically attractive women.
Looks have very little to do with it, I bet. I know plenty of dudes that can get women "out of their league." It's all about their approach and attitude. :afro:
very true. Once I stopped trying so hard and changed my attitude I had a lot more success with women.
So, anyways, kokujin..... What exactly happened this time? How bout instead of making blanket statements against all women (I mean, what WAS about comment about vaginas equal war or something? Really? Really? You sure you even think something silly like that??? I doubt it....I actually suspect you're just trolling for attention, lolz.).....But yes, why don't you just state what happened. "I did this and this female did this and then this happened and then that and it ended like this instead of what I wanted which was this other thing".
A star wars themed wedding would be so cool, and wouldnt cost that much if you got everyone to hire their own costume. Your mother in law could get as drunk as she wants as long as she comes as Jabba. problem solved as no one would understand her Then as part of the vows, at one stage you could get the celebrant to ask "The mighty Jabba ask why she should let you marry her son?" Then you'd be like "Ay.....Yoto" and then he be like "...cos she's holding A THERMAL DETONATOR!!!"
Yea, I read his post and was actually really, really confused of wth that was doing in this thread...lol. Neways, yea I agree w something that you said... I mean, if he puts off a vibe that he has problems w women....well, that is just not very attractive to women- and of COURSE they would not be interested in talking to him! Doesn't exactly take a rocket scientist.
He replied in my other thread about me planning my wedding and I guess maybe he confused them since he saw my name there? Idk lol But yeah. Women are intuitive. If OP has that attitude when he's in public, it's going to show. And who wants to talk to someone like that? If I saw someone who looked approachable and nice, I'd find a reason to go talk to them. But it really depends. I'm shy and so are a lot of women. They don't deserve to be put down because they need time to feel comfortable around new people. Shy doesn't always equal insecurity either.
I agree. I meant more along the lines of, if he doesn't really like or respect women and he doesn't project an easy confidence yet has his eye on the most confident and attractive girl in the bar, she probably isn't going to bite. also, confidence isn't really something you fake to impress the ladies. I get the feeling that is how the OP defines confidence. Confidence is feeling happy and secure with yourself and the world around you. Confidence being an attractive quality to the opposite sex is just a pleasant by-product.
OMG! I crossed the streams! (Man I watch too many nerd movies). Or maybe I just post what I want where I want, I'm a rebel like that (You rebel scum) Seriously though, if you did a Star Wars themed wedding that would be so cool and nerds across the net would be, wow you are so awesome. Where as if you just do the standard borrowed, blue thing with a tent and wallmart chairs everyone will be like, oh yeah wow, thats so original we havent seen that 100 times before. Do the end scene of the first movie when they are getting their medals, (Fischer was apparently high as a kite that day) except its the wedding aisle, and play the same music, and he's in his little Han outfit I'll stop now
Lmao or we could do the scene from episode II where Anakin and Padme get married. But if we do go Star Wars I'll be sure to let you know :2thumbsup:
i'd like to know the last time a girl was rejected because she wasn't confident enough, or didn't lead, or didn't make it happen. but ok ya, i'll try to forget it again for a while. I respect girls as individuals. I don't respect/don't like their idea of what courtship should be. whatev. :daisy:
If you want normal gender roles where you get a girlfriend and you date and she does things for you and you do things for her, then you're gonna have to pay for them by manning up and leading/making it happen. That's why it's called "manning up." If you don't do it, you could still bang a desperate girl, but you'll never get to be the man in any relationship.