You had to try it, at least once.

Not everything went swimmingly well, oh, like sucking off nine of my friends and, later, being fucked by all nine of them. Tried it. Survived it. Proud that I did it. Let's not even think about doing that again. Still, if you're not going to give something a try - and then make it a positive experience - what are you doing? Or not trying something because you heard from someone else who heard from someone's cousin's uncle's girlfriend's baby-daddy that it hurt, was nasty, whatever they did and didn't like it.

You should find out for yourself if you're going to like something or not. And if there's something that your instincts tell you not to do? Don't do it... unless you're hard-headed. Do I regret trying the things that I learned wasn't too my liking? No, because if I hadn't done them, I wouldn't have learned anything one way or the other.

 

That's an excellent point and it applies to life in general.

 

Yes, it's one of the things that taught me that being bisexual is more than having sex. Like, yeah, does it hurt the first time a dick goes in your ass? You bet it does! Now, you can either fear the pain of penetration or you learn how to embrace it, make it work for you so you can enjoy what it's like to be screwed and creamed. Is swallowing cum an acquired taste? Yep, it sure is but if you never try to do it, you can never know if you can acquire the taste - and why would you take someone else's word that it's ghastly nasty and should never be done?

I tell many men and women that when it comes to being bisexual, you don't have to believe me: Try it for yourself and then try it more than once to prove or disprove whether you liked it the first time or hated it. If you never try, you can never fail and in this, if you never fail, you never learn how to succeed. And, growing up, I did not want to be the guy who was afraid to try something and being called a chump or a chicken. And if you're afraid to try something, well, that's a problem... isn't it? And more so when it's a good chance that you're afraid of something because someone told you to be afraid of it... and why would you even let that work?

Find out for yourself. Don't buy into the fairy tale stories and definitely don't believe all of the horror stories you're definitely going to hear. Or, as we used to say back in the day, "Try it - you might like it!"