You don't want to kiss your friend, but you will suck his cock

I think kissing can add to the blowjob experience, but only if there's some attraction.

 

This is kinda where im at right now. maybe it will change idk

 

I'm not into kissing and hugging... I just enjoy the sex. That having been said, a nice looking tranny I would probably treat just like a woman...

 

would suck my friend any day, not into kissing, over rated

 

Yes…that is me. I have no physical attraction to a man other than his cock and balls.

 

Amen

 

If the guy likes kissing that's fine with me. In the heat of anal sex I've engaged in some passonate kissing. But, I'll never be the one to initiate it with a guy. For me it's about sex not love and there's no attraction for it. Totally different with a female sex partner. Can't be enough kissing then.

 

There are a lot of bi guys, perhaps even the majority, that are only interested in cock, and have absolutely no interest in the rest of the guy (body or person). Worship of the phallos, or erect penis, is ageless throughout many cultures. It is certainly primal, and even built into, most men, even if it's just their own cock, but probably other guys' cocks too. I even started my bisexuality in the same way.

Similarly, there are a lot of guys that enjoy everything sexual with another guy, involving cock, balls, and asshole, but have no interest in the rest of the guy. Over time I have come to the conclusion that there is A LOT of internalized homophobia in almost everyone in our society, including homosexual and bisexual men. This translates for many into not wanting an emotional, let alone a romantic, connection to another guy. For most people, kissing involves at least an emotional connection to the other person, a desire for him or her, beyond their genitalia.

For me, though, once I discovered my enjoyment of anal play with another man, 21 years into my sex with men, everything changed for me. I felt I really got in touch with the gay part of myself, accepted it, and in fact loved it (though it's still an evolving thing). From then on I have wanted much more intimacy with guys, including at least an emotional connection. I want to make love with the man I'm with. This includes lots of kissing. Unfortunately, there aren't as many guys into that kind of intimacy than I would like, so I am struggling fulfilling my needs.

 

I would not initiate kissing, but I won't resist if they wanted to kiss (during sex).

 

No kissing for me. No anal either. However I'll gladly suck a penis and let it fill my mouth with sperm. Another thing I really enjoy is rubbing dicks together and come on each other's cock.

 

Wow, you would take his load.

I would not kiss a guy, I want to sick cock

I don't think bi could taste cum, not unless I really get regular with sucking cock and like it.

I'm open to being fucked if opportunity presents, just gotta be a smaller cock.

I want to be sucked off and could probably fuck a guy if he wants.

 

......two masculine, macho guys engaging in heavy-duty "tonsil hockey" , IMHO, really "amps up" ANY m/m encounter, especially if you already have a deep emotional bond with your partner.

The PHYSICAL combines with the SENSUAL and, with those two powerful forces working together......well, you guys know the rest, I'm sure.....

 

I've observed that the vast majority of American men are freaked out about kissing other men. Even in this thread, it is only being discussed in the context of overt sexual activity.

What about affection? Is that totally taboo among men? If so, a few of us men have smashed the taboo, and have miraculously done so without losing our masculinity or our attraction to women and men.

 

I usually have very little interest in kissing a man, which is a little odd I guess, because it's one of my absolute favorite things to do with a woman. Having said that, there have been a couple of times when I've gotten extremely hot in the midst of the action that I've really gotten into it without a second thought. Thinking back, this was usually with younger "twink" types, so there may have been more of a "female" feeling going along with that.

 

I'm happy to have discovered that even a small portion of men are secure enough to be affectionate with other men. And those same men are willing and have the vocabulary to talk about their inner lives, which is so much more interesting than typical man talk. Physical affection is a powerful healer. Even memories of it help me get through tough times.

 

I wouldn't mix kissing Sam Elliott. The though of his tongue in my mouth, and this big cowboy mustache rubbing against my lips makes me hard.

 

I too have really never had any desire to kiss the man whom I'm about to suck cock with, but I had done so once with a gay man many years ago and it was more satisfying than I ever expected. Now, fast forward 28 years later I was with my "Suck Bud" of 12 years now the other day when we decided to take a shower together rather than separately before sucking each other off. I have a rather large walk-in shower with two benches and two rain shower heads that my wife was insistent on having. Anyway, as Tom and I were showering we began washing each other and fondling each other when I just reached over, gave him a hug and kissed him and to my surprise he responded with passion as we enjoyed several minutes of French kissing as we felt our cocks throbbing against each other's bellies. We then took turns sucking each other under than wonderful warm rain shower before heading to the bedroom for our regular 69 sucking session to cum in each other's mouths. My opinion on kissing him has changed, and his has too.