Have you had bi experiences because it was the better choice for sexual satisfaction? It wasn't my first choice, but it worked out that way for us. Did you go there because it satisfied your needs , so you did it, or were you into guys. I didn't want to say that I leaned in that direction because of need alone, but it was the lessor of the evils , with the same result.
I found it was an additional choice for sexual satisfaction and, really, it was a choice "made" for me albeit one that I don't object to. I'm not into guys but I am very much into having sex with them; it satisfies the need and, yeah, it works - because why wouldn't it? I can only imagine what it's like being an adult and wrestling with this and having to look at this in those terms. It was another way to have sex and one that I didn't have to beg and plead girls/women for - a whole lot of guys looking to get their dick sucked or wanting to fuck... and willing to do whatever so that they could. And figuring out that the common denominator in this was... it's sex and no matter if you're having it with a guy or a gal.
One afternoon, you're sitting in your favorite Italian Ristorante' and waiting for the waiter to bring your Milanese, and you look down at the menu and think, "Hmmm I've never tried the Pasta Fagioli." So, you motion to the waiter and order a bowl. So, Yeah, after decades of exploring hetero sex. One evening I clicked on a video link I thought was a common porn video, and it turned out to be a TS. I got so excited watching a woman with a cock, fuck a man. After that, my Wife decided she wanted to peg me, and I loved it when she did. I began wondring what the real thing would feel like. Now it has become an obsession with me.
I would say that, for most guys, sex with a dude ain't their first choice but I've seen many a guy opt to give sex with a man a try because, as far they're concerned, it's the last option and one that must be taken when (a) you can't get any pussy and (b) spanking your monkey starts to get boring. Then it's all about the end justifying the means and now it's not something they'd do all of the time... but if the chance presents itself, sure - why not? You love women and their delicious pussies but now you know that if you can't get some, you know there's a guy who'll probably suck your dick better than a woman would or let you bone them in the ass - as well as guys willing to do whatever you need to you. It becomes an option and one that as a first choice, no - guys aren't going there but if the opportunity presents itself, again - sure - why the hell not? It remains true that it works for us. It is not choosing one over the other and like some seem to think; if you have to choose, choose both and if you can make it work for yourself, then it works, doesn't it? Doesn't matter if it's the lesser of two evils because at the end of any day, it's just sex.
I'd been exposed to same sex relationships since I was very young. I just never gave more than passing thoughts to it. It was after I was introduced to pegging that I began craving the real thing. I have yet to see where that path leads.
I can and will tell you that you'll either like the real thing inside of you or... you won't. It's something you'd either do all of the time when with a guy or... only when you feel like it or, like most of us, only with a Mr. Right kind of guy. Where this path leads is entirely up to you once you set foot upon it - where do you hope it might lead?
Well, Mr Right kind of Guy is the hope. I don't do hookups. When I was young, I used to just do things on a whim. There are many things I wouldn't do that way again. I won't call them regrets, because I learned valuable lessons. Right now I need to know that the person I am allowing to do these things with me is someone I can trust.
