You do/did it for them

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  1. topper

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    What have you done, sexually, because your s/o asked you to try it? Was it something that you enjoyed or did you just do it for them?
     
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  2. NubbinsUp

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    Some one always initiates or suggests an activity that is new to that couple. You ought to refine your question.

    The first time I had vaginal penetrative intercourse, it was because the girl I was dating told me she wanted to do it right then. If you really want a complete list of the things I did because a partner requested or suggested them, it would be somewhere between 1/3 and 2/3 of all of the sexual acts and variations on sexual acts I've ever engaged in.

    Only a total of about 5 things I've ever done to please a partner were truly distasteful and unpleasant for me, so much so that I wouldn't want to do them again just to please that partner. That's only about 5 out of a total of hundreds of different sex acts and variations on them that I've done over the course of my life.
     
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  3. Barry Mandelay

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    Many years ago I had an older woman who was my sexual mentor. She had me to try things I hadn't considered such as cunnilingus and anal. In the beginning I licked her pussy because she asked me to. I hesitated at first but thanks to her excellent instruction and response I learned to enjoy it.

    The one thing my mentor had me try that I didn't really enjoy was anal sex. That didn't turn out so good and I became repulsed over it. Not that it didn't feel good but after cumming in her ass I pull out with a shit covered and rancid smelling cock. The turn off was enough that I did it only a few times after that because she wanted it. Mentally I'm not into it even though I could wear a condom or have her cleaned out with an enema beforehand. My spouse doesn't like anal even though we tried it once. It didn't work out then and we never tried again which was fine with me.

    At my spouses insistence I learned to clean up my cream pie in her pussy. My spouse needed me to bring her off after I had ejaculated in there. She was still horny and I was apprehensive to go down knowing my semen was left behind. But I took a deep breath and dove in. Well, not really diving in but gingerly with my tongue lapping at her clitoris. It took me several times before I began to enjoy the clean up effort while burying my face in her drenched cum filled pussy. I would come out with it all over my face and could smell the odor for a long time afterwards. I progressed from that, liking the taste of it so much, to tasting and swallowing my own semen after ejaculating from masturbation. I still eat my own semen after masturbating.

    Most everything else I am up for if requested. Shower sex, outdoor sex, mutual masturbation, many different positions, even some role play and game play. We've even had sex, at her request, just so she could get pregnant.
     
  4. Andy Schumer

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    A fwb asked me to bite her nipples. I tried, she asked harder. I did and she was loud, her response got me hooked on biting nipples.

    my favourite fwb asked me to hold her head every time she gave me oral. I still wanted to let her be in control though but it always gave me the desire to fuck her mouth

    same fwb, asked to try reverse cowgirl, she made herself orgasm a couple of times before I had mine. She asked to be on top and use my cock to pleasure herself, I LOVED it!
    And yeah she was basically fucking me at the same time
    She asked me to teach her how to give oral, she never did it before. It was a very enjoyable experience because she wanted to and she enjoyed pleasing me.
     
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  5. Andy Schumer

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    In the reverse, I “asked” to let me play with breasts longer than they’re used to, knowing they liked having them played with.
    Me? I was having a great time because I love breasts.
    FWB? Ecstatic to discover they could orgasm from their breasts.
    One of them even to the point of asking me NOT to give her oral. She wanted my mouth on her breasts while I fingered her clitoris, her G-spot. Wicked orgasms, I never saw someone having aftershocks after.
     
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  6. Andy Schumer

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    I met someone who never experienced an orgasm from a man before. She asked in an email to have a complete body massage, nothing sexual until the, especially, NOT to bring my penis into the play (a couple of guys placed her hand on their penis and it ruined it for her somehow)
    I did just what she wanted and needed, and she was enjoying getting what she wanted so much she was wet to the point she was leaking! That was a first for me.
    Then I started working her G-spot, and, she had her first ever G-spot orgasm at 33 years old. She loved it, she laid there basking in the moment for a little while after that.
    She DID get what she wanted.

    She was so happy she said I could have whatever I wanted. I was not going to ask for intercourse, she was not ready to have more stimulations yet.
    I told her I liked her breasts and she told me to play with them as long as I wanted. I did for a while and in the process of ignoring my erection too long I could not even get hard for sex, she could not get me hard even stroking it, I asked for a sure method to satisfy me and she seemed pretty happy to let me titfuck her.
    I held back twice and she told me to just let myself go. It WAS good, I got what I wanted too.
     
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  7. Andy Schumer

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    Most recent is someone who is not used to have her breasts played with long enough
    (Yes, it’s a recurring thing with me, a breast-a-holic). I did what I said I would and while she didn’t orgasm from my attention she discovered that it still felt so good. She was super wet by the time I touched her, she orgasmed quite easily a few times, and having her breasts played with at the same time made it so much better. She said she came so hard and she already asked when I would make her cum again.
     
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    My wife did this a while back. After giving me a great blowjob to completion, she quickly climbed up and sat in my lap and then tongue kissed me. I realized that she had my cum in her mouth and tried to push away but she held me there kissing me. After a minute I just went with it. She asked me if I was mad at her and I told her no just a bit shocked. She then asked me what I thought about it and I said it was OK. In truth, I was actually pretty turned on after that. I enjoyed it more that I thought I would. I was hard again and she proceeded to ride me in the chair kissing me again until she orgasmed which was pretty quick. She apologized later saying she didn't think I would do it if she asked so she decided to not give me a choice in the matter. I finally admitted to her that at first I didn't like it but that it then actually turned me on quite a bit. We only did that one more time and I wish she would do it more to me.
     
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  9. Andy Schumer

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    You can tell her, ask for it
     
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    I've told her that I'd like to do that again but when she sucks me off she just lets my cum run back out her mouth and on her hand. We were pretty drunk both the times she did this to me and it seems I may need to get her really drunk again.
     
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  12. Andy Schumer

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    If she’s OK with it, try instead helping yourself to her tits and shit if she lets you go all the way
     
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    I had zero interest in anal sex before meeting my wife. Whenever she had her period I would regularly dry hump along her ass crack and cum over her back. One day she asked me if I wanted to fuck her ass. She had done it with her ex bf and although it wasn't great with him she wanted to try again. I was hesitant at first but then figured what the hell. We both enjoyed it.

    We started doing it occasionally over the years and then it became more regular. I could count on both hands how often I entered her pussy in 2019. This year may have been a shitty year. My silver lining is that I haven't gone near her pussy all year. Anal all the way.
     
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  14. nldn

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    The only time I ever did anal was at an ex-girlfriend's request. Not something I ever wanted and would not wish to do it again.
     
  15. Alice in SC

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    When we were young hubby wanted me to fuck his friend, I did not want to and didn't like it. Now I can't get enough of it!
     
  16. SantaCruzRob

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    Early in our relationship my wife invited two guys to join us, at the last moment she told me that she wanted me to watch and not join in. I was devastated. She wanted me naked and to watch.
    As the event began, I was still hoping she would tell me to join in, she didn't
    Instead she began to verbal tease me, both of the guys cocks were at least a little bigger than mine.
    She laughed at me for being hard while I was watching, she encouraged me to jerk off.
    They DP'd her, all the while she's looking at me and talking.
    When they left, she began talking to me sweetly, my mind was spinning I was not happy or okay with anything like that happening again, but it is still seared in my mind
    Like I said, she never did anything like that again and our relationship was strong.
    Amazing what a person will do for love
     
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    I dressed up in women's lingerie for her. It was her thing, but I'm not gonna deny that it was a turn on in the end.
     
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  18. Andy Schumer

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    Memories coming back LOL

    Favorite FWB wanted me to pin her against the wall to have sex. She thought it was meh
     
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    Twice, I've done forced on someone who got off on it. Can't post the public details but happy to PM what she did. The very first time I took someone to an adult book store with glory holes (she just called the "The Holes", she wanted to look like a man instead of a woman so she dressed in carpenters jeans and a flannel shirt. It was a cold, winter evening and the idea was that she would walk in and stroll around with her hair tucked into a baseball hat. I would come in a few minutes later and wander around too. Then she would sort of follow me and we'd get a booth together or, if the larger booths were occupied, we'd try to squeeze into a small one or take adjoining booths. At any rate, she wanted to suck anonymous cock and I wanted to watch. We pull into the parking lot. In she goes. I can see her looking at toys and magazines. I go in and browse some videos before I head to the back. I look behind me and she did a good job with dressing like a man. But with no bra, a cold night and her getting turned on, her nipples were popping right out. We had a good time but she walked out with her hair out and the next few times she just went in as a girl. It was kind of funny that neither one of us thought of that before we started. Years ago I took a dare to follow a girl into the ladies restroom. She sucked me a little but never finished. I don't remember why. A little while after that I found out that it was a regular thing for her. She just had a thing to have a man in a stall with her.
     
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