hey all do you guys think that im bi-sexual? the thing is that i love watching cock pics. i sometimes masturbate while watching and thinking about them. mostly its only about me rubbing other mans cock. i love to watch pics of cumming cocks and all that but im not into man-love and humping. i take penis as an art.. sort of. mens faces, bodies, asses in particular dont attract me. i have a bit of experience with another man but that was when i was like 6-7 years old. it just happened. i wasnt thinking about it as i do right now. ive also done webcam sex with a random gay man on skype. would do it again.. with girls, everything is normal. i love them. does that make me bi-sexual or just a little curious?
as far as I am concerned, if you are attracted by the human body then why not also the same sex. Lots of us are - but we are conditioned from birth by societies/religious codes. The last five years I have been on websites/forums - there are so many guys looking for m2m liasons - most of them married and cheating on their spouse; I'm not condeming them - i have done the same - but it's a fact. I have just spent the afternoon on a clothing optional beach in Perth, WA; there are guys there who flaunting their stuff in front of you, others in the dunes trying to hook up, then the married guys coming to look and also play in the dunes etc. etc. It's fact and between being gay and hetero there is a huge area of varied attractions and feelings. Some people may be sexually attracted by the same sex but emotionally by the opposite sex. There is every variety in this world which is great - vive la difference; it would be so boring if we were all attracted by the same! Go with your feelings, desires, guts but if u r married/in a relationship maybe you should now at this point discuss this with your partner - you might be surprised and find that she is interested to experiment too, mine did and loved it. It's not just guys who have other desires, sexual desires can change, can be fluid. Then at least you start open communication about it and avoid later hurt with deceit and lies. Good luck, Simon :sunny:
It can be a little awkward, and it can stir up some discomfort; as such topics can. But if she's an understanding type, if it's a strong communicative relationship, you'll be able to talk it all out, I'm sure. Me and my gal have a bit of fun talking about it while being naughty every once in a while.:2thumbsup:
thanks. one more thing. if i masturbate to cock pics and such i completely lose interest after ive finished. then im like thinking why im doing this..
^ that used to happen to me. It might still, actually. The only thing I can say to that, is that I also lose interest in some of the females/couples/lesbians I masturbate to. Not sure if that applies to you as well. I mean, it really is something you have to try on and feel out for awhile. You'd think it'd be pretty easy answers but..
this reminds me of a day i attended a friends party he put porn on - why do some men feel they to do this? but anyways the women was taking it in the backdoor with her head down it masked her gender. i asked him why did he like this video it could have easily have been a man or a women - it just so happened he knew it was the latter he didn't appreciate the suggestion - deemed it gay but it always made me feel that sexuality was quite fluid. it seems people fight social normality's.
another question now. i have a good friend who id really like to masturbate with. years back he invited me to his place alot when his parents were not at home. just to chill out and have fun. but most of the times he powered on the tv and switched to porn channel. i wasnt sure what were up to so i just watched it too. we only kept commenting on it like how good it is and how nice woman there is. i think i saw him adjusting his pants with his hand few times but that was about it. im wondering if he wanted to masturbate with me since that is the only logical thing to happen when watching porn etc. some time has passed now and the idea came back to my mind. well actually ive been thinking about it quite often when i masturbate.. we both have girlfriends now and have lost our virginity. we talk about girls and such with no problems at all. we told eachother when and how we lost our virginity etc. now we just go outside and hang out like normal friends. i wonder if i could get him to masturbate with me? we are both a little shy and i think he would say 'maybe not' when i would ask him directly to masturabte with me. i need a slow way to work things up. maybe go to his place and have a few beers and then maybe watch some porn again? just commenting on the porn first time and slowly moving on with the next? help me out guys e: my goal is to get him to masturbate with me. im sure i could get him to do more with me later on.
any other advice? as i said before im a little shy at this point and i think i wouldnt have the balls to start rubbing myself infront of him.. ive googled about this alot but havent got a real solution for myself. somewhere was suggested just to ask like 'im really horny, i wish i could work on myself right now'. then the other dude would have a choice to deny and to say 'you can do it here'. the other thing was just to pull out my penis and start working on it. then id have to say like 'join me' etc. would be a very interesting situation if i think about it but for some reason i cant think of it as a realistic solution. im scared to get denied.. im sure it wouldnt break our friendship but it would just be a major turn-off and embarrasment.
i found a guy who messaged me in another forum. he lives in my area and said he has same desires as i do. he condiders himself being straight but also loves to take the time out sometimes and play with another male. like me he havent got a taste of real action. so messaged him back that we could meet up and have fun together. he is a little older than me and has his own apartment. he is also married wich makes things pretty interesting. im wondering if im getting to know him and all then maybe i could get a piece of her wife too? he showed me some pics of himself too but just the lower side of him. very nice and thick cock he has.. ..i cant wait!
okay we talked alot and we found out we have the same desires. just to hang out and suck eachother sometimes. he is alot taller than me and he has a huge cock. even if its flaccid its so huge and fat. cant stop thinking about having his flaccid cock in my mouth and feeling how its growing.. anyway he told me he could drive by and just pick me up. we could go to some pub and have fun with the girls. then later on we could go to his place and play with eachother. im really curious to try it out but im a little scared beacuse its a new thing. i dont find sucking a cock scary but meeting up with him. acting straight and then exposing eachother like that.. one thing i also like is that he has never done it with a man before. thinking about a situation where we both are a little scared turns me so on. but we talked a talked about that too and he said he would probably just suddenly put his hand on my cock while im not expecting it. i love it.. i cant stop thinking about it.
yup, i'd say he wanted to masturbate with you then. or you could go to his place, have a few beers and skip the porn part. when you're both comfortably buzzed you can just place your hand on his thigh at some point and massage it and see how he reacts. if he doesn't like it you can always say you were just drunk and not knowing what the fuck you were doing. if you still plan on getting together with him that is.
