hahahahaha! excuse me i haven't used these type of things before... i was not aware that the postings i was reading were not currently going on. it still doesn't seem to match up the right time... but it's probably just me not understanding. i am not that familiar with using forums. do you leave messages here for folks to respond to whenever they find them or do people always just go back and forth with eachother? and when did you two realize i was "talking" to folks who weren't there anymore?? at the time it was happening or later? and i still felt the love from the beautiful people's energies that were left there, nothing to feel bad about really. peace