well, you might look at it like that i am also taking care of him and i do make my own money so technically, not really
it like any thing, the answere lises within, to ask a question is to seek reasurance to me, if i was u i would cheack it, just play pass,, theres more to every thing evan life if ur not happy move right along, if its cool tho u want more family time tell the brother, like the wind it can go many ways and touch many a things wha do you want to touch, enojoy relax and ride the way, happynes willl be sure to follow. love what u love be willing to do what needs to be done, nothing more can be said, rock on drun beat peace
If you were making enough money to finance your dream of stay-at-home motherhood, this thread wouldn't exist. You're using him, and you know it.
u make me smile by liveing in reality, maby not, maby reality is never realy put into prospective, imagen how lucky we are, u cant choses where ur borne or who's ur parents will be, at the draw of a card u are, and will be untill the day u die, "liveing". greatfull maby be the word, who gives a fuck could be the other, the penny is in ur hands, im happy ur happy, for u bubs were all happy, reality is what evere we precive just a topic people bring up in a debate to re-creat a paradox theroy, just enjoy life thats all any one can ask, u didnt ask for this tho maby u did as to an in sight what makes me tick, thus makeing u smile, im going to lay my head on a cloud, peace
wow no, not really i could support myself if I had to i have done it most of my life and i could do it now if i needed to i contribute just as much to this household as he does, maybe more if i was using him i wouldn't be thinking of leaving now would i
Aren't you a sweetheart I'm not gonna get into an argument with you It's not worth my time But thanks for playing
hahahaha i just figured out why you have a problem with me all I can say is to each his own my friend
I wouldn't let that worry you... after all cherea has made it quite clear how he feels about women. So putting any type of value on his words would be beyond pointless. It's really too bad that he is so afraid of women that he has to take every opportunity to try to slam them and make himself feel better. Maybe its a jealousy thing...
Thanks tom Im not worried about it He has the right to his opinion And I have the right not to give a shit
Oh, I am quite well aware he has the right to any fucked up opinion he wishes, which was why I didn't address him about it. As for not giving a shit, that's a good thing. I'm pretty sure he has an unlimited amount of it already...
my mom was a stay at home mom for many years while i was younger. it was wonderful always having her. despit the fact that i want to kill her now but in 17, so thats expected. you being home foryour son is the best thing you can do for him!
Well you have to get pretty close to someone before you're accepting their kids like that... 6 months? Think from his point of view. You just, as far as he can see (I don't know about other people, but if I'm not doing a chore, i often forget it exists....) Walked into a relationship, and now you're sitting there playing with a baby and refusing to work, more or less. Just saying maybe he doesn't want to be a daddy in 6 months, you know? Not that he doesn't want to be. Just my take. And I'm not saying don't spend time with your kids, of course that's the best thing, be a mom, not an employee.
Last time I checked, a pregnancy lasts for around 9 months... seems the child is 6 months old now, it seems obvious that it wouldn't have been a surprise that he was getting involved with a mother, so the whole, 'maybe he doesn't want to be a daddy' doesn't make a lot of sense. Maybe you know MissBHave personally, but seems I don't I can only go by her posts, where she says she gets up early, cooks, cleans and looks after the home, plus makes clothes to sell. This is what you consider You're sure going to turn out to be a good one...
Oh so raising a baby isn't work? It's more than just "sitting there playing." You know why I don't give my wife hell for not getting a job? Because when I come home after work I look at her and she looks more exhausted than I am! Taking care of a baby is HARD WORK. Taking care of a baby while taking care of a house is HARD WORK. Just sitting with a baby is, while extremely enjoyable, still HARD WORK because when you are with a baby you are RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS LIFE. I cannot imagine what it's like to be a single parent but I'm willing to bet that it's twice as hard as being married parents who share the responsibility of raising a child.
