ok, im a pretty nice person most of the time but i swear some of the guys on hipforums are stupid. this guy just added me on my msn and the first thing he tells me is that hes bored and horny... i mean wtf... but it gets worse when i was telling him to fuck off he was like dont give me an attitude... but whatever. what happened to guys respecting girls?
hahah.. this is why you don't just add random people to you MSN list. Unless you want to "webcam" with them, don't bother.
I get some pretty crazy PM's here at times from people who I have no idea whatsoever who they are but have been lurking around checking out posts I've made. Kind of freaks me out a bit. I mean, if I'm familiar with the person it doesn't bother me, but when I've rarely if ever seen a post by the person on the boards, I tend to be suspicious. So I investigate, check to see what kind of posts they're making before responding. And I never give out my messenger numbers or private email. I'd say just be careful who you give information to, know what I mean?
Amen, Sister! There sometimes seems to be a LARGE mental gap between what females judge to be appropriate behaviour and what men judge to be appropriate behavior. Unless you are one of those females who market themselves as sex toys, the type of behaviour you describe seems totally "out there". I don't know why they do it... they just do.
Okay, I was once a love&sex forums poster. It was my hang out. In fact, I am one of the co-creators of the hipforums webcam sensation. Sorry about that. But if you don't want disrespectful pms and messages, you almost HAVE to avoid the love and sex forums. I mean, seriously, how often do you need to talk about the different forms of sex before you just know too much about people. The L&S forums are the most notorious hang-out for lurkers and jerkers. You won't get any respect from most posters there.
This is true. I don't post on the L&S forums all that often, but it seems like anytime I do, I get the weird PMs.
ahh... i didnt really think about that. but on none of those posts did i say that i would cyber with the guys on here. hmmm...
Hate to say it, but taking down the naked pic of you from your gallery might help... lol. Even if you didn't say you would "cyber" by posting such a pic, you are telling men that you might be up for it... it's the way the male mind is often times wired. Naked chick = sex
I know what you mean some guy added me on AIM and he was talking about how drunk her was... I was fine with that but then he asks if Im any good at giving blow jobs :O Like what the hell, go get a life a and a girlfriend. Gee But the internet is has horny guys on it constantly cause most of them are to lame to go get some real stuff. Not all the guys on hipforum are this way...I don;t know most of them so can't say to much. But hate it when guys think just cause your a girl your going to be giggly and easy.
eh, having your msn addy up is more likely to get you bad attention than an artistic nude that doesn't even show nipple But yeah, that's why I took down my msn addy. Had too many guys pull that stunt on me and it's really just not what I'm into. *shrugs* there are morons everywhere, you just gotta minimize your exposure to them
I wasn't saying that the pics were the only reason... if you notice, there were other posts by me saying as much. Was just saying that that such a pic wasn't going to help the situation...
you know.. i was playing with some matches a couple of days ago, you know flicking them off the side of the box etc, you know nothing serious, just mucking around, its not like i wanted the box of matches, they were just laying around and i've played around matches before. do you know what?! one of those matches had the audacity of burning my fingers, what a pain that was. (said darkly) someone ought to do something about those matches.
I like how no nonsense you are. Don't let that bring you down. Coetipping is passe and this too shall pass. (I bet you could take um two out of three falls and make him call you daddy. lol) teasing Just ignore the ignorance because like a tomato it will soon rot and return to the dirt.
Just take your Yahoo/MSN contacts off...people will have to ask for it first... Those = "Please message me!"
I never get smut PM's ... well only from people I know on here. I'd have to agree though that if you have suggestive pics in your gallery it will definately add to that kind of attention. I noticed when I posted in MJ forum that's whn I got all the weird IMs.... I think most of them were cops...lol. I always picture everyone on here being a big naked masturbating blob ... then I ask myself ... is this what I want a big naked masturbating blob to see??
