Wow! I'm Pissed Off!

Well a few have said dont hold on to the hate, it is a waste of time, 100 reasons why they dont do this and that. Not wanting to turn up cos they dont really have the money to spare to bring any thing decent and dont want to be seen as a charity case a big one. Even if they have a good job, might be neck deep in mortgage or anything spare has to go into car rego or whatever that month.

But start holding grudges and getting bitchy and you just end up cutting off people. Suggest more mixing it up and more part time aquaintences, you might only see once a month or so, that gets easier cos people tend to get less snotty in a way as they get older, even if they do get grumpier. Whereas close fulltime friendships are harder cos one partner, usually the wife or girlfriend or the sub gets more pyscho jealous.

Different sets for you, you're a gay girl. Gay couples with kids, only irritating when the kids are little, once the parents kind of get over it they are fine. As for me, Younger friends? Younger straight girls and their daddy issues, seriously WTF man

 

i don't think asking people to bring their own alcohol and drugs to a party is that ridiculous, especially when you're providing food and such. if they can't afford booze/weed, then they can still come and eat food and have a good time with friends...