Would you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominant?

I can understand that but I'm not asking for pain or choking, I just want him to call the shots, maybe tie me up and tease me, blindfold, him telling me what he wants me to do to him, moving me where he wants me...that sort of thing. I have other fantasies that I know will never happen but this I really wish he could do.

I am pretty good at communicating what I want, it just doesn't come naturally to him. We have been trying more recently but his erection is never as hard as usual when he has to be in control and he seems uncomfortable. I have even tried being completely submissive and told him he could do whatever he wants with me but it just makes things awkward because he gets nervous.

 

My partner is the dominant type.

 

I prefer both honestly. Most times I prefer to be completely dominant and her 100% submissive. On some occasions I wish for her to be 100% dominant and me submissive. However she had never taken the dominant role......... and that is uninspiring on my part.

 

Dominant men always. I'm way too submissive to be able to switch roles, only person I'm a little dom with is my bf but that's because he's into cuck stuff so it's not even me being aggressive.

 

A mix. I have been with a dominant woman who I became dominant with.
But I enjoy letting a woman leading, taking turns

 

Since my wife has me locked in chastity (cock cage) I would say she’s dominant lol

 

Sometimes I wish I'd married a submissive virgin but I struck out on both. I love her to death and figured you can't always get what you want.

 

I prefer her to be more aggressive....I like the occasional submissive role.

 

Him to be dominant. Nothing turns me on more than a man in charge. Lol

 

In bed my girlfriend is definitely dominant. She decides what we are going to do and when we will do it. She is the top and I am her bottom so I submit to her and I love it. Depending on her mood she fucks my ass, I suck her off, I eat her ass or she gives me a facial. Whatever works for her is fine with me - my pleasure is satisfying her.

 

I want my husband to be a dominant... I love being at his mercy and being forced to do whatever he wants.

 

Submissive because it is so against her nature to be dominant. When she tries to be a dom, both of us can't help laughing.

 

With my wife I like to be dominant. With a man, submissive.

 

I want all partners to be 100% submissive with zero switch or dom tendencies.

 

Dominant for sure. I wouldn't know what I'm doing with a guy that's submissive

 

I’m a control freak, always dominant

 

dominant for sure

 

Most of the women I was with for any amount of time were fairly aggressive, especially my wife.
Along with having a high sex drive, she growled when fucking and cumming, that was great.

 

Dominate. I like a partner that knows what they want and is not scared to take charge and get it.

Pleasing them is the point anyway, isn't it?

 

I prefer my lady to be submissive!

 

I am naturally very dominant. My wife is very submissive. I've never been more sexually compatible with someone in my life. It's hot

 

Female lead as opposed to dominant