Would you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominant?

We are senior couple and married a long time. We let each other have their own way of dominance. I do enjoy having a good blow job during the day. Maybe not to completion, but to keep me sexed up for later. My wife is very willing to me a quick suck to keep my pre cum flowing.

 

We're both switches. All depends on our moods. I love it either way. Also love pleasure pain. Love the reminders days or weeks afterwards.

 

Prefer my partner to be DOMINANT!

 

I prefer a dominant partner. Preferably someone with a little bit of a mean streak

 

Hubby & I are both equally dominant or submissive as the need takes us. However my Bi Girlfriend who lives with us is dominant most of the time with both of us.

 

I like it both ways

 

My partner is a little bit of both , which I love.

 

LOL. My wife is dominant. And I was never asked what I prefer.

 

I like a woman to dominate me most of the time.

 

It's very hot when a woman is sexually dominant.

 

dominant

 

submissive

 

depends on the mood, I love it when my wife forces her pussy on my face and grabs my head and demands, on the other hand I like to have the upper hand.

 

I'm pretty dominant, so I'd have to say I prefer submissive women. I can literally spend hours pleasing her, in every way...and getting a woman to cum again and again till she's a quivering mess of fuck jelly is just about my favorite thing on earth

 

I need my partner to be dominant

 

Dominant, want her to take charge and tell me exactly what she wants.

 

I like a bit of both! Keeps things interesting.

 

I am always dominant and I like it but I really want to be able to give up control or have him fight me for control but my husband isn't confident enough to make it convincing even when he tries

 

I know his feelings. I was the exact same way. My biggest hurdle was to block out the one side of me that cares so much. She absolutely loves being pounded hard with my hands around her throat. It was very difficult to get past, seeing this is the woman I love and care about so much. But we talked about it, and learned proper hand placement. Along with a safe word. To this day, I still have that slight uneasy feeling at the beginning. (And I know I always will). But once we get going it tends to go away. I find that starting out with something less aggressive like a good spanking is good for me (And her!!). I can easily take control and get us both on the right path and mindframe.

 

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Maybe he is so used to letting you be dominant that he is unsure when he should be, or has a hard time telling when that is what you want.