would you prefer to be held w/ empty arms or no arms?

what i mean is does it matter to you the connection you have when you are being held by a partner or is it just the holding you seek?


i would prefer no arms to empty arms

 

"no arms"...definatly. I seek an emotional connection.

 

Ummmm.....is this while having sex????

 

nope, not a sexual question at all
its about just cuddling and hanging out

 

I don't like to cuddle, so I guess no arms.

 

But I get horny while cuddling........

 

ok..........well then answer it sexually then. sheesh.....you make question asking difficult

 

Ok, if a chicks feet are on my lap I really get horny.

 

I would prefer to keep my arms - unless I have this big car crash and they must amputate.

 

I fell into the arms of Venus De Milo....



I would prefer not to be held if there was no emotion behind it, just like I would rather masturbate than have bad sex.

 

What if I don't really get a choice... because there are no arms around to give me either option? Do I just hold myself? Or cry? I like being held... I'm so alone. *tears*

 

Get yourself a mannequin from a department store and pretend that one person out of the 6 megazillion that live on this planet loves you. Does this help a little? Also, if you make holes at strategic places and fill 'em with jello, you could try to have intercourse.

 

LMAO!!!!!!!!! Thanks friend for the laugh.

 

Waddya laughing at here you inconsiderate a.h. We're trying to help a human being to be happy here. Stop making fun of these serious matters or I'll have to report to Chiefcowshit.

 

happy that was kinda the angle of my thread. when brought to lonliness......do you just take on anyone or wait for the right someone? thats the basis of the question at least
girl....i cry myself to sleep sometimes cause all i want is to be held

 

Take a brick and smash the window of a cop shop. They'll hold you alright...

 

I'm so sorry! Just go out and give random people hugs, you're bound to get lucky sometime.

 

i would rather be alone than with someone who means nothing to me....

so i guess....i would crave the emotional connection

 

I won't cuddle with someone I don't have a mental/emtional connection with...not even physical. If the brains not there than I don't care how cute he is... I learned that the hard way, you can't love someone who you find attractive on the outside but not on the inside.

 

OH... I didn't get it.

I never cry, but I've been crying every night this week. I hate it. I sleep better, though, because it wears me out. There are lots of things that I still want to know... and money I want back, but I can't get him to answer the phone and it's driving me crazy. I really don't believe Andrew ever actually loved me. I know he said he did. But what does that mean? Especially coming from him.... If he had ever loved me, he wouldn't be able to treat me like absolutely nothing, like he is now. So, on top of everything else, he is a liar.

And I'm all by myself... Boo hoo...