would you prefer to be held w/ empty arms or no arms?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by mariecstasy, May 28, 2004.

  1. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

    what i mean is does it matter to you the connection you have when you are being held by a partner or is it just the holding you seek?


    i would prefer no arms to empty arms
     
  2. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

    "no arms"...definatly. I seek an emotional connection.
     
  3. laugh2

    laugh2 Member

    Ummmm.....is this while having sex????
     
  4. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

    nope, not a sexual question at all
    its about just cuddling and hanging out
     
  5. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

    I don't like to cuddle, so I guess no arms.
     
  6. laugh2

    laugh2 Member

    But I get horny while cuddling........
     
  7. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

    ok..........well then answer it sexually then. sheesh.....you make question asking difficult;)
     
  8. laugh2

    laugh2 Member

    Ok, if a chicks feet are on my lap I really get horny.
     
  9. Friend

    Friend Banned

    I would prefer to keep my arms - unless I have this big car crash and they must amputate.
     
  10. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

    I fell into the arms of Venus De Milo....



    I would prefer not to be held if there was no emotion behind it, just like I would rather masturbate than have bad sex.
     
  11. HappyHaHaGirl

    HappyHaHaGirl *HipForums Princess*

    What if I don't really get a choice... because there are no arms around to give me either option? Do I just hold myself? Or cry? I like being held... :( I'm so alone. *tears*
     
  12. Friend

    Friend Banned

    Get yourself a mannequin from a department store and pretend that one person out of the 6 megazillion that live on this planet loves you. Does this help a little? Also, if you make holes at strategic places and fill 'em with jello, you could try to have intercourse.
     
  13. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

    LMAO!!!!!!!!! Thanks friend for the laugh.
     
  14. Friend

    Friend Banned

    Waddya laughing at here you inconsiderate a.h. We're trying to help a human being to be happy here. Stop making fun of these serious matters or I'll have to report to Chiefcowshit.
     
  15. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

    happy that was kinda the angle of my thread. when brought to lonliness......do you just take on anyone or wait for the right someone? thats the basis of the question at least
    girl....i cry myself to sleep sometimes cause all i want is to be held
     
  16. Friend

    Friend Banned

    Take a brick and smash the window of a cop shop. They'll hold you alright...
     
  17. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

    I'm so sorry! Just go out and give random people hugs, you're bound to get lucky sometime.
     
  18. scarlettchasingroses

    scarlettchasingroses strawberry tart

    i would rather be alone than with someone who means nothing to me....

    so i guess....i would crave the emotional connection
     
  19. Earthy Mama

    Earthy Mama Feel my wrath... ;)

    I won't cuddle with someone I don't have a mental/emtional connection with...not even physical. If the brains not there than I don't care how cute he is... I learned that the hard way, you can't love someone who you find attractive on the outside but not on the inside.
     
  20. HappyHaHaGirl

    HappyHaHaGirl *HipForums Princess*

    OH... I didn't get it.

    I never cry, but I've been crying every night this week. I hate it. I sleep better, though, because it wears me out. :) There are lots of things that I still want to know... and money I want back, but I can't get him to answer the phone and it's driving me crazy. I really don't believe Andrew ever actually loved me. I know he said he did. But what does that mean? Especially coming from him.... If he had ever loved me, he wouldn't be able to treat me like absolutely nothing, like he is now. So, on top of everything else, he is a liar.

    And I'm all by myself... :( Boo hoo...
     

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