Would you let a guy literally worship your body

I WISH my partner would worship me... take the time to dote on me, recognize me for the woman that I am...reciprocate (sp?) the attentions I lavish on him....

 

Like how?

 

What does "dote" mean?

 

http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=dote

 

worship is such an old world concept... just feeling good vibes is my wish

 

I wish that he would too sweet woman.

Its a shame that men fail to see what it
is the they are being blessed with.

I pray that you get what it is that you
truely deserve.

 

whats wrong with old world?

Go back old enough, and the
worship of the Divine Feminine, and Masculine,
were part of daily life, and deeply engrained
in daily thought.

More should go back to that thought.

 

no that stuff is all bullshit... toss it into the compost heap... been there done that... let it go... no need to go back... look back... turn into a pillar of salt

ingraining thought is stupid... have a passionate mind in the moment

 

i have never heard such disappointing words from someone.

ignorant words turn my stomach.

 

That's a little bit too smothering for me. My boyfriend DOES treat me like a goddess but sometimes it gets to the point where I feel like I can't breathe. For me, being put on a pedestal is something great for Disney movies, but not so great in real life.

However I totally wouldn't mind being treated like a puppy or kitten or some other cute furry animal and cuddled all the time.

 

Whats wrong with disney movie romance? Thats how people are supposed to love one another not this "You look hot I want to screw you" bullshit. I guess im just a dork when it comes to this stuff. I agree 100% with heron's point of view. I dont think love is enough sometimes there has to be something more something greater then love, and that to me is connecting with someone so completely that you idolize and praise them...Eh I am weird when it comes to this I suppose.

 

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I've learned that there are two types of guys in this world. The kind of guy that gives me butterflies when he touches me and makes me want to do anything to be with him. Then there are the guys I'm comfortable with but don't have that special, passionate connection with. I've tried dating the guys I'm comfortable with. My interest in them dwindles. I NEED to feel like I want to worship a guy.. look up to him and just be like, "He's nearly perfect for me, how did I get so lucky to have him." When I feel like that, I feel like I could honestly do anything and succeed. I can only imagine how good it would feel to have that feeling returned.

 

I think you have a point there, Weeble. Somehow I think I feel like that, but never could put it into words. Thank you!

 

i feel worshipped everyday of my life, sexually and otherwise. be it with a look, a touch, or by words, i am shown what a goddess i am with every breath i take. though i use to feel un at ease with my role, it just feel right and a how it should be , and now i bask in it. i deserve to be treated like a goddess. i deserve to be respected and loved. i have a right to it. just like every other women out there.
but as much i am worshipped as a goddess, my husband is worshipped as a god. he's loving, kind, gentle, strong, protective, among other things. he is what a god is and what every men should be. we love, learn, and grow with each other.
even after 7 years of marriage, he still gives me goosebumps when he touch me. i turn around and see him staring at me with love and adoration in his eyes. i want to cry at times when i look at him because there are so much emotions and know he is the same. we love each other more now than we ever did and continue to love each other more everyday.
i lied to him today. he asked me why i haven't posted an answer to his thread. i gave him a lame excuse, saying that i do actually read it just never logged in as myself to post. the truth is, i didnt' know how to answer to the post itself. there seem to be so much that i can say, but can never describe exactly how i feel.
so you have my answer, as best as i can decribe about how i feel.

 

it depends on how the worship is given....if it feels needy or otherwise like him being a servant.....then that would make me uncomfortable...
but as i feel Heron is describing here, it sounds Tantric and there is nothing more beautiful than the absolute love and desolving into one another...pleasing them to please them and therefore pleasing you.....all i can say is YUMMY to such a situation and love dance and that i would absolutely LOVE for this type of worship!!!!
putting on a pedestal where i do no wrong or where my every wish or desire was granted at its first request, feck that......i dont need submission, just mutualism.
i would worship my lover as he worshipped me.

 

again i bow to your relationship....such love and truth and beauty. may we all find this treasure in a lover.

 

i in no way consider myself a goddess, but should someone else wish to treat me as such, i'd be a fool to argue, and i'm no fool.

 

I am glad that my wife spoke up, i knew that she would give more insight into
what it was that i was trying to get across. Thank you my love, you make
me feel that my every breath is worth it. I will thank you properly when I get home

Marie, well said, that came across well.

I would like to add to my point that being up someones ass, and treating them as Goddess are two completly different things.

I dont mean be subserviant and waiting hand and foot.

I mean two people living as the divine aspects of their sexuallity,
and playing from each others strengths to further grow in their own.

And an altar is for that one moment of worship, a pedestal is
an everyday position of having sunshine blown up your ass lol.

 

i was clear in what you meant....actually right from the beginning of the thread.
the fellow that i am seeing, dating, whatever the hell you want to call it....he has actually opened my eyes to such a love-making practice....
i grew up christian so the idea of self and the idea of god/goddess was foreign to me. as my days progress and i release the ideas and programs imprinted in my being and start creating my own.....i fall more into thoughts of this....thoughts of being divine...of being a goddess...and worship...people put such a negative connotation behind it....we all worship many things...to me worshipping is presenting yourself at someones feet and pleasing them.....in bed yes, in everything...there is balance and each couple needs to find there own...its many times in dissolving into another we find ourselves...
LOVE WASN'T PUT IN YOUR HEART TO STAY! LOVE ISN'T LOVE UNTIL YOU GIVE IT AWAY!....and what is more beautiful than seeing the love and longing, kissing and carassing of your lover on you....having them filled with desire for your every part....seeing in them how much they love you and in that filling yourself with love as well and returning it to them tenfold.

this was written by my lover to me(least i think so)
http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showpost.php?p=1619244&postcount=80


lastly the part that frightens people about worshipping another from the heart is the dropping of their own ego and identity....but in such a practice, you find yourself in a higher vibration then possible if you didnt give of yourself in such a selfless manner


does any of that make freaking sense?