Would You Be Okay With This

A guy being turned on by you calling him "daddy" in the bedroom?
Yes or no? Too creepy or is this kind of thing normal ?

 

It only works for me with Hispanic chick's and they have to say Papi

 

Well we speak a form of Dutch, Afrikaans, so he's requested I call him "pappa" (means Daddy). It just seems like a really weird incest-y thing to ask for - or I'm just not being open minded enough about it :smoking:

 

Deends on how it's being used. Is it being used as a nickname or is it a father/daughter incest fantasy?

 

It seems to be a very common thing in the States, something I don't quite understand. It's not really an incest thing but a power thing.

I just love the way Hispanic chick's sound when they say Papi In a sexual manner

 

A bit of both I would imagine... He like doing the whole father-daughter role play and I'm just a tad frightened it's rooted in some kind of need for dominance. Or I'm just over-thinking it

 

We don't even live in the states xD!
Our country's actually quite conservative - which is why the whole incesty-y thing is something VERY new to me. I've never come across it before

 

Dad/Daughter fantasy thing is not something I go with.
However,
At 53 years old, I tend to think that 'Daddy' is a form of 'elder' acknowledgement to those of feminine youth that find the older bloke attractive
(well that's the hope)

 

I would be much less worried about the dominance thing but then again I love that.
I don't know how i feel about the incest fantasy part. I mean as long as he doesn't fantasize about you being a little girl then I say go with it. As long as it didn't turn into something really creepy and gross. Like someone else said, if it's because of an age gap between 2 consenting then who cares. I guess it would only bother me if it were more about a child fantasy. I'm not ok with that.

 

Hahaha. He's only 4 years my elder :daisy:. I would hope it's not a child thing... Though I wouldn't think so as he's got a thing for big boobies xD (and those don't often come paired with a child). Hopefully it is just a dominance thing then? And it doesn't reach a pervy level

 

If it's a dominance thing then enjoy every second of it. Dom/sub is my favorite. Have fun with that!

 

Yeah I think that's pretty much it.

 

It's become common enough (at least in American culture) that it's not shocking (in fact, it doesn't really have to do with father-child dominance so much), but, when I really stop to think about it, yes, it grosses me out.

 

i prefer guys not being turned on by anything i do in the bedroom.

 

It isn't something I'd do. It'd ruin my libido for the occasion.

 

I call my fiancé daddy sometimes. Not all the time but I do it lovingly instead of "babe" at times.

I say it a couple ways like to turn him on / when we're doing it dom/sub style. Or when we're cuddling and he's being sweet taking care of me. He's the man of the house and I associate "daddy" with caretaker/man of the house. We're not pregnant yet but would like to have a baby, so once we do he will be the daddy and I'm sure I will call him that a lot more often.

We've actually talked about the use of the word daddy. For some reason I wanted to call him by it, and he was totally into it. We both agree that the perverse connotation is disgusting and we don't think of it that way when we use it.

 

I have always been with older men (10+years) and I do often call them daddy. Only once did I have a man get completely weirded out. He didn't like it at all. For me I tend to attract men who are dominant so it just comes out naturally to call him daddy on occasion. When I think about it I think they in a way enjoy it... I can't even tell you how many times I'm address as "baby girl" and "little girl" and I'm 40 lol!!!!!!!! That does turn me on I'll admit when a man calls me that.

 

What's wrong with incest fantasies? They're just fantasies.

I call one of my lovers daddy. He's almost 50. I'm 30. He's really bossy. I love it. We have a master slave thing going on. I beg him to slap me. Not too hard though, I'm not really into bdsm.

 

I am a baby girl (I am into Daddy/baby girl relationship and it is a part of BDSM world).

Firstly I'd like to tell that you should ask him to explain it to you slowly and in details. He should explain you if it is a father/daughter fantasy or a power fantasy and nothing more.
Secondly, I should explain you that if he is into father/daughter roleplay it doesn't mean he would ever touch a child, his family members or he would ever get turned on by that. Actually most likely he hates people who touch children with all his guts. And the reason why is his Daddy-ness (?). Ok, there are, of course, different types of people into this. But mostly those are very intelligent, mature and sweet men who like to have power, be in charge and TAKE CARE of their women. They would get in the way of a bullet for their little girls. This type of relationship takes lots of trust and honesty. And brings lots of wonderful emotions.
As a baby girl I feel comfortable and happy to be in Daddy's arms, to be his good girl and do as I'm told, to sleep with a teddy, to color my coloring books and watch cartoons and Disney movies. It makes me feel safe, loved, free... Especially if Daddy does it with me or just sits there and watches over me. My heart skips when we hold hands on the street, when he kisses my forehead or sings me a lullaby. It feels like home. It feels like nothing could ever hurt me, because Daddy is there and will always fight the monsters.
But this is not for everyone. Lots of people don't understand and refuse to try. Lots of people judge it and say it's sick and weird and what else. It's not easy at all.

P.S. Lots of Daddy/baby girl relationships don't even include sex. At all. Lots of them do. With or without roleplaying.

 

Creeeeeeepy