Apparently I'm selfish. I drive three hours to meet a womyn I met on hot or not's "meet me." We go out dragging three of her friends along as we go all over town. I buy dinner, ice cream, coffee, and then I break the law by buying them all beer at a club, abstaining myself since I'm made the designated driver, sat around the club waiting for someone who never shows up before we can dance, only to leave early and drive them all to the beach where we just sit around waiting. All the while my date is on her cell phone, not paying attention to me. I felt like the third wheel on my own date. When I finally call her out on it she accuses me of being selfish because she's on the phone dealing with a crisis with her two friends. I spend the rest of the night appologizing to her because as the man I'm always wrong. She now says she's still mad at me about me being inconsiderate of her feelings but that she may forgive me. I'm home now and $60 poorer.