Won't Finish Or Start Blowjob

I have an amazing girlfriend. Our sex life is very very good. It started off ok...and after 2 years when you would think things might drop off a bit , they have gotten uncontrollably stronger. I fantasize about doing her all day. I can't get enough of going down on her..I eat her pussy every chance I can, and often flip her around and eat her asshole. This is meant to please her, but mentally I'm getting off so hard when I do this..This is usually before sex and when I'm done she usually goes down on me, And she is amazing at it!! So here is the problem.... It's been 2 years and she's never given a start to finish blowjob. She will spend about 3-5 minutes blowing me to my 25-30 minutes of going down on her. For some reason it only happens as a "payback" gesture. She will never out of the blue just pull out my chalk and suck it off. This has been running through my mind for some time and I don't know how to handle it. I come from a past of GF's who consistently send me to the moon with blowjobs and suck my every drop out. I don't want to seem shallow to her so I never bring it up. But I can't control my desires...and find myself thinking about other girls who have got me off in this way....Ladies a blowjob will get s guy off in a way sex just can't. We need to get off in different ways to feel fulfilled.....at least I do..... Every time I cum its inside her.... Does she have an issue with cum? I'm not sure how to handle this because I've never had this problem. At first I realized it was foreplay and she didn't want me to blow before the main event, but after 2 years doesn't she just at least want to see me explode with cum outside her vagina ?!?! My experience is that most girls love love love to see the cum and their man get off.... I know if I had some sort of validation of her getting off like ejaculation I would be down there in a second! Any advice?

 

If you don't want to talk to her about it because it could make you look shallow there is probably no solution.

 

Talk to her. This is obviously a big deal; as you came here to seek advice. Open communication is the key. Try talking to her about it. You might just get that blow job you are wanting.

 

I will have to talk to her about it. At first I thought it was about being patient because I'm used to that being a part of the whole picture.. But maybe she just has no clue? but that seems impossible , I know she talks to her girlfriends about sexual things........yes, communication..

 

How do you know she talks to her friends?

 

She'll tell a random story about what her and her friends were talking about (sexual).......... That's how

 

No, thats just what she says to you, to get you excited, they dont tell each other everything, they are not going to say stuff to each other that makes them look bad or makes them a threat to the other girls boyfriend. Dont ever take advice from chics about chics

As for this communication is the key crap. What happens if she does give you the start to finish blowjob, you finish too quickly and she just gets a mouthful of jizz and nothing else, if she doesnt give you that you spend half an hour going down then fuck her, last longer, which at the moment may be what she wants. Its when she doesnt want that anymore you really have to worry

She's never going to communicate that to you if you have to be trained as one would house train a new puppy dog

But by all means try the communication thing, then come back and tell us how long that lasted

 

I don't mean that she specifically talks about this situation... My point is can a women be so out of touch with what a man likes? I mean doesn't every guy in the world want his girl to give blowjobs. I feel this is pretty common. So , if she doesn't do it I am starting to feel it's not something that floats her boat....and there may be no changing that, and talking about it could possibly ruin the whole thought or even the want for it. Ive have had girls blow me while they are drip a puddle on my bed. This is what makes it a bigger turn on. Knowing you can relax and this is getting both of you off. Asking for it is something I've never done and I think it would ruin the moment realizing that she doesn't want to be doing it

 

grab thy broads face and jam your dick down her throat....

 

To me, there's a few possible solutions. You can talk to her about it, saying how you really wish she would do that for you. Or, you put more energy into sex, based on how long she goes down on you and stuff. Best bet is to just talk it out, if that doesn't work, just withdraw some of your sexual energy from the bedroom. If she's not going to give 100% why should you?

And come on, all relationships are different. Sometimes people just click, and you don't have to ask for anything sexually because you're already getting it, but when you aren't getting what you want, communication is your option. And don't ask, tell. When was the last time you asked if you could kiss her? You don't ask, you either just do it, or tell them to do it, and you can physically reward them for doing it.

 

OP you should totally do this....if you enjoy being bitten

 

Grabbing ear are a option

 

Ladies who give blowjobs to completion, (cum in mouth, or swallow) are a 'rare and special treasure. If you like blowjobs, (and who doesn't)..if you find one who satisfies you that way sexually..KEEP HER CLOSE, if you don't..there are millions of guys who will gladly take her off your hands.(or cock .)

 

Well I guess I've been lucky! Sh*tttttttt .... I've had a string of girlfriends that have forever fu*cked my head in this department... I took it for granted I guess......now I'm starting too see how extreme they were....it was literally part of their diet...how the hell can I possibly move on from that......

 

It sounds like you are afraid of screwing up a good thing and that bringing this up might insult her or hurt her feelings. So, why not ask her to tell you some of her fantasies, and things she would love to try sexually. After she's done that, ask her if you can tell her a few of yours and make this the important one. She probably has no idea that this is something you really want. Believe it or not, not every guy likes blow jobs. Sad, but true.

 

I've been with my old lady for about 10 years now and she has only given me a beginning to end blowjob once. I get jwr off all the time and it would be nice for her to reciprocate.

 

Ironically, she is very very good at it when she is actually blowing me... I just want her to take me all the way..... I like the fantasy idea... I will try that.....

 

This is great advice--again that open communication. She might not know; perhaps a previous boyfriend didn't like it; as Annwyn'Bri wrote--not all like blow jobs (shaking my head).

 

Oi, see

The advice from every chic is "oh maybe you should just talk to her about it" mimimimimimi

Useless

 

lol i also notice thats the answer in every single thread with this sort of problem haahaha

try these tried and true methods:

1. hold her head down
2. keep on saying 'bout to cum.......'
3. i had a gf who was lazy and sometimes just let me face fuck her so she wouldnt do any work
4. ask her for one as a birthday present or something

ok thats all i got.