I've tried to read it. It's pretend kink vanilla rubbish dressed up as dangerous sex. Badly written and no more than a Mills and Boon novel with the sheets removed. If that's porn for women then no wonder sex is misunderstood.
There is women friendly porn, but it can be too softcore at times. I like the right balance where it's not too "hardcore" like some of the male-geared porn out there...but not something that I read out of a romance novel.
The right balance seems hard to find, doesn't it? My wife is repelled by hardcore and bored by romantic softcore.
I'm a girl, and I'm totally into watching most porn as long as I'm watching with my BF. I get turned on as he gets turned on. As for favorite genre, I admit that I am most turned on by girl-girl gonzo porn as well as two guys on the girl. I hate porn when the BJ goes on forever, where the girl looks totally bored and not into it, and when the guys look creepy and gross.
With all of the porn out there, you would think it's easy. Everytime I look up porn, I get a blown-up photo of a woman's vagina or a link to see transvestites.
I am reading between the lines, but I think I know what you are asking. Most porn is geared for the male mind. As a woman, I would like to see porn where there was a little more involved in the story or characters, rather than just flashing from one porn scene to another with little rhyme or reason. Any drama or comedy movie that would just show a sex scenes as the normal course of the story would even be awesome, in my mind.