Women Would You Admit to Knowing What a Sybian is if Asked?

I have work with a married woman for several months now...late 30's, just the 2 of us in a somewhat cozy\secluded office. Very Italian it seems. Devoted to family and friends. Slender and somewhat attractive (slightly above average). Married for at least 12 years.

She was asking me this morning about my trip to a place I just bought in Florida. She asked if I got to meet my neighbors at the complex. Told her about 1 woman...probably early-mid 40's who'd lived there for 2 years. This woman I work with asked if the woman was single. Told her she'd dated a few guys but preferred her Sybian at this point. My co worker said, "what's that?". I told her to google it.

I was shocked she didn't know what a Sybian was but I didn't let on. Do most women not know? Was she just saying that because the conversation turned somewhere she didn't want to go or what? I guess a married woman can have a great sex life and not be knowledgeable about sex toys huh.

 

I don’t think it’s far fetched to think that she wouldn’t know what it was. I only vaguely know what it is and I’m sure most of my friends don’t know about it.
I’ve honestly only recently gotten into sex toys myself.

 

Wow...surprised and disappointed but thanks.

 

We’ve been married for over 15 years. I tried a dildo type toy many years ago but didn’t like the artificial feeling. I preferred to just use my fingers on my clit. Then several years ago I tried a bullet vibe and REALLY liked it. I felt content with that.
A couple months ago I bought a g spot vibe to try and I love it but it’s so intense that I use it sparingly. The toy company asked me to be a product tester so now I have the g spot vibe, a weird little “tongue” vibe, Ben wa balls, a tiny bullet, a vibrating dildo with a suction cup bottom, and a wand vibe (my BFF). Not a huge collection but it works for me.

My husband also has a couple of fleshlight type toys.

 

Very cool and good for you Imm. I've got the g spot vibe...long skinny shaft with an "egg" vibrator at the end??? Great to use with oral.

I've only known this woman in my office a few months. She and her husband use to be big partiers and all that so I figured they'd been around sexually. Maybe having kids and all that she's got a lot of other stuff on her mind and sex isn't a priority. She works part time in a bar\restaurant for extra money so I figured she was worldly enough to know what a sybian is. BTW, she's never said she googled sybian or what she thought about it. Oh well...

 

Do you mind telling specifically what bullet vibe?
My wife is like you, she tried a few dildos years ago and didn't like it and also prefers to rub with her fingers. But I sooo want to be able to make her orgasm myself, I can't get the rubbing/pressure right to get her off. We talked briefly about getting a vibrator but she doesn't think she would like it....maybe this would work.
Thanks!

 

I don’t know what brand it is. It’s a small, silver bullet shaped vibe. Get her one that has different speeds. You can get them fairly cheap on Amazon. I’ve never met a woman who didn’t love them. I was skeptical at first because I really didn’t like the first toy I bought (vibrating dildo) but I still remember the first time I used a bullet vibe and how amazed I was.
I also really love the wand vibe. The one I have is less than $20 on Amazon and it’s my new favorite. The feeling is similar to the bullet but I like the handle. I seriously use it every day.
And if she wants to try something intense, the g spot vibe is nice. I don’t use it a lot because I have a hard time keeping control of myself while using it. It goes inside but it’s smaller than a dildo so it doesn’t feel uncomfortable. Mine has “bunny ears” to stimulate the clit but I sort of wish they weren’t there because it’s a little TOO MUCH.

 

Actually a g spot vibe might work well for you to use on her. I think I’d like it better if my husband used it on me so he could control it and I could just enjoy it. It makes me crazy and I have a hard time keeping my rhythm when I’m arching my back and biting a pillow.