Women with a Sex drive bigger than a Man's....

It's usually me saying that lol but yeah I'm hard as a rock again in 30 seconds when a woman says that to me. Especially if she goes down on me to get me going again!

In my younger years I could go for hours and cum 5-6 times in that time. I could probably still manage 2-3 now, with a woman that was really into it. I've gotten a lot of compliments for my "vigor" lol! But alas like the OP I seem to suffer the same situation of having a sex drive so far beyond my partners that it becomes frustrating.

 

I had to get away from that woman. I couldn't imagine a life with a nympho. You see women are named for their high sex drive while men? oh that's just how guys are.

 

Completely disagree. But to each their own.

 

Everyone has a slightly different sex drive finding the right partner when you have a very high sex drive can be difficult the willingness of keeping up with a nympho can be very enjoyable at first but can become troublesome to the point of being annoying.
Having sex 3-4 times a day can sound wonderful to some but the reality is being with a partner with an extreme sex drive is exhausting both physically as well as mentally, being that this personality type is usually very clingy and possessive.

 

You are making a heck of a lot of assumptions about a person for purely anecdotal reasons. One does not necessarily cause the other. Whether or not its, physically or mentally exhausting, or the person becomes clingy or possessive is purely subjective and has NOT been my experience with such people.

 

Disagree how so?

 

Troublesome puts it lightly. I'd put her in the category of fucking nuts and needing professional help. She'd come looking for me at my college classes just to fuck even though we fucked the night before and that morning. She would suck my eyeballs thru my dick.

 

"You see women are named for their high sex drive while men? oh that's just how guys are"

If "thats just how guys are" it seem the OP wouldn't be having this problem in the first place. I've noticed a lot of young men are definitely more sexually driven, but not all mature (mentally, not necessarily age wise) are just like "that." And women who are "named" as such are only stereotyped like that by insecure douche bags. You are making quite the generalization there, that is what I disagree with. This might be the experience with the people YOU have known, but that is purely anecdotal as well.

 

We have had different experiences with such people perhaps, having lived with the experiences

 

Women are driven to have sex differently than men. We see a pussy and want inside. They see a cock and want it to take them to dinner. Then a movie or dancing. Then they want to hear how wonderful they are. After all of that they might be willing, usually not. They're just not wired the same.

 

When I was younger 3-4 times a day would have described me although the clingy part is very much the opposite it usually was the guy that got clingy and possessive always wanting affection, constant calls, asking where I’ve been and heaven forbid that I wore make up or wore something that showed a little cleavage etc.
Some how all women who love sex gets mixed up with she’s got to have it with anyone and has no self control.

 

Clingy and controlling sucks in either gender.

 

Is that so or is that what we’re conditioned to believe? Take a look at a hen’s night or male strip show (no seriously every man should take a look) that is a wild night, you would be shocked to see the “nature” of a conservative woman change after a few drinks in a socially acceptable sexual arena.
Could it be that “Women are driven to have sex differently than men” although mostly true is not a cause of nature but a symptom of a unhealthy society?

 

Society’s role is very controlling in how people are seen and should conduct themselves, if you don’t fit neatly in this tiny box you’re an outcast.
If a woman has X number of partners society my label them as a whore etc. The same cannot be said for a man society will give him the label of stud etc.

What’s that saying “ A woman in public and a whore in bed “

 

Absolutely I’ve been made feel like a freak (among other things) for my sex drive. Don’t rule out more then one guy, maybe that’s the key maybe a polyandry relationship could be right for you.

It probably is the reason, but it’s not you, you deserve better.
I can tell you what I wished I had done. I wish I had of been upfront about how important communication, curiosity, and compromise was important to me in all aspects in a relationship (I didn’t hold it back intentionally I just wasn’t taught or emotionally mature enough to know what to say or even that I was allowed to say it) if the guy that I had been dating had a problem with understanding that then he needed more time to swim with the other fish so I should have chucked him back, better off finding out sooner then later.

 

My response was mostly written with tongue in cheek. Yet, since I got a rebuttal with a mention of a male strip show claiming to prove it's a society issue I challenge anybody to find a regularly attended strip club that features male dancers. Now compare the number of those type venues to strip clubs providing entertainment directed towards men. Or brothels, massage parlors, magazines, porn sites, where men are the primary seeker of the sex oriented service. Not women. The numbers weigh very heavily towards men because of the hormone testosterone also known as the sex hormone. Compare the numbers of men who post to this forum versus women. You'll find the numbers lean heavily towards men, again because of our testosterone production. There are always exceptions but when comparing the genders as a whole women see having sex in a whole different light than men. This is not a society driven cause but a fact of nature. Generally, women's bodies make about 1/10th to 1/20th of the amount of testosterone as men's bodies. That's just the way it is.

 

You make some really valid points. In Australia we do have male strip clubs that only have male dancers, massage parlours for women, and women go to Bali to hire a boy toy for the week etc etc but the numbers are smaller and it’s hidden. It’s been 10,000 years since women have been able to have sex without Social, political or religious interference give us some time to catch up

 

We need to talk.