women... when on beach ...

do you mind if somebody stares at your bra and bikini area?

 

That would be a no. Unless it's the kind of stare that gives off that sociopath/serial rapist kind of vibe.

 

I hope that's sarcasm.

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Hey serious question which is the lesser of the two?

Having someone stair at your face/eyes, or at the areas mentioned in the original post of this thread? (Both can be creepy, but which is less so?)

 

Stare - that's okay.
Dribble and do other things - not okay.

In a way, I would prefer people (men obviously) to as least give me some sort of second glance and give me some morale boost: Bodies do deteriorate after a certain age.

 

Staring is not polite.

Didn't your mother teach you that?

 

staring is weird and creepy.

glancing, double glancing, lingering for a couple of seconds is okay. This cannot be helped and everyone does it.

Staring is just intrusive and rude.

 

hi

okay,, if glancimg lustfully for a while to a hot body,,

 

Glancing is taking a brief or hurried look.

Ogling is staring while showing excessive or offensive sexual desire.

Don't confuse the two.

 

What if I'm up on the bank with my super duper telephoto lense, then can I stare at your pics when I get home.

 

Creep.......



Cheers Glen.

 

its ok if u are getting a positive body language back I would think. If the girl looks away and doesn't smile...that would be a negative, but some really enjoy it ...especially on nudie beaches.

 

Anyone who objects to being stared at should not go out of their way to look sexy - and that's not a sexist remark, as I include men & women equally in that statement.

While the argument of "asking for it" is never any excuse, there is certainly an element of truth to be found there. After all, if someone dresses in a way that is designed to attract attention, then attention they will get - and not always from the intended audience.

 

If I see a nice young woman with nice body & she's wearing a bikini , depending how far away from her I am, I usually look at her till I get closer & then just glance at her on & off. If I'm wearing sunglasses, she wont know if I'm looking at her or something near her. But I usually take notice of their breast area & butt or if they have any pubic hairs visible & how much of their body they like to show off.

 

sure, but i don't think wearing beach attire at the beach would really count as going out of one's way to look sexy.

 

The beach is a dangerous place to unveil your skin.
Not because there are perverts but because of UV rays.
I'd show up wearing a full body wet suit just out of precaution.

 

I don't like it...It is not gentlemany to me, and I like gentlemen.

 

yes I understand this, but desire always rises from underneath

 

Stare away. I've been to nude resorts and beaches and been stared at. Enjoy. I feel that it is a compliment.

 

Take one to know one!

 

Maybe so, but the strange thing is that a bikini can have a more alluring effect than a totally naked body.