Women - what features do you like to be big on a man?

Maybe that's exactly what he's looking for ?

 

he dates pay for plays.

 

Hell, I knew Canada was it!

 

Ha! Your level of hypocrisy is very sexy. I love hypocritical women.

 

oh cherea you just want a strong handed independent woman, that is just as hard to find like a simple, down to earth guy

 

Oh, I totally agree. It's not like it's easy to find dependable male friends, either. And you KNOW, women wouldn't get away with half their shitty attitude toward life if it wasn't for CHUMPS.

So, in conclusion, I say they deserve each other. May they live happily or unhappily forever after. All is well with the stinkin' world.

 

Okay, kewl, I guess.

 

it isnt easy for both sexes. how old are the women usually when they come up to you? usually they have dollar signs in their eyes if they are young and party animals , also try and get out of the places you meet these broads.

theres a difference between a girl wanting to be financially secure and a girl that wants money and blowing it on material things.

I liked this guy for a long time, had a job here and there, it was alright to me, when he quit his job cause of not showing up, he had no ambition, no dreams, just wanted to literally be a bum and let me take over. i wasnt prepared to raise ..basically a kid the way he was acting at my age. I broke up with him because i just seen what kind of future id have with him if i stayed

so i hope you get some views and what some girls are trying to say when they say they want to be financially secure on both parts. especially in days like now.

 

This children stuff is too involved and complete bullshit anyway. It's like, on the first date you need a guy who's gonna be a perfect fucking provider. Give me a break lol. ESPECIALLY on the first date, I might add...because the guys that pay for drinks aren't the ones doing the fuckin'...

Anyway, you know what my stepfather said to me when I told him that I was "careful" so not to have a child? He said, "That's such bullshit, you were just lucky."

I agree with him. Oh, and my great-grandma told my mom when she was little and wanted to be a diplomat and a president? "You won't make it, you're black." I think that was a great thing to say.

I don't see the point of treating people paternalistically, if I'm hated I will hate back and I will acknowledge that there is hate between us. It isn't worthy of your humanity or sexuality to be defending a gender or the narrowest possible view of family. It's got very little do to with women, the biological fact.

And it CERTAINLY, doesn't have to do with human reproduction.

 

LMAO. Im sorry but you totally misread my post, I meant that I felt I was raising a kid (him having no job or dreams)

but this is a good topic too. My friends...MOST of them have babies..now..ok im almost 20, and i know women who are on their 2nd child at 19. Good that they are good parents and provide for them, BUT they are too focused on getting a father since theirs walked out

they say I hope they are prepared for a baby!!! when they are going out on the FIRST date. Its ridiculous. The guys are the same age as them...they will not provide like that immediately.

i told myself NOT to have a kid with the wrong guy, I wont allow it to happen because I see what my friends and the hell they go through bitching and arguing with the naive dumb ass father and I dont want that.

 

the older you get, the more important that first date gets.

 

my stepfather took care of three of us.

 

No girl has ever slept with me for my money, i assure you. This one happened to make alot.

If you define that as gold digging and think that is the only way around it ever goes, ok.