yeah im SURE theres women out there who are strong and independent. You just gotta look harder. I like when a guy makes money, but not for ME to spend. Ill admit the guys SHOULD make just enough to get by. Or yes, no one is going to be attracted to a bum. You should really STOP taking it so personally, it may seem like "every woman out there is a gold digging whore!" right now but if you keep thinking like that, then thats ALL you're gonna run into and when you meet the right one and god forbid she asks you for money, you're going to blow up on her for nothing.
I thought I only liked tall guys, but for some reason only short guys seem to live in Arcata and I'm a pretty tall girl, so every guy I've dated has been shorter than me and now I realize I just don't care. If I decide to start a family, of course I want to settle with someone who has financial security, just like I myself will need to have a good job and some money too. That is being responsible not being a gold-digger. Why would I want to raise a family if we have no money to support them.
he is new york city. that is to say, the sorts of people drawn to that sort of place to make a life are typically the sorts of people the rest of us in flyover country are happy to have all in one place, far far away from us, good only for a vacation viewing, like going to the zoo or the smithsonian. god knows i only fell for dave for his sweet ride, palatial digs, family connections and executive income. he didn't have looks or charisma, intelligence, charm or passion going for him. honestly, i've only ever known one gold digger in all my life. seeing as how she was genuinely kind to her sugar daddies, i couldn't find it in me to disrespect her. if cher can spew his testimonial experience, so can i.
By the way Chiara. You mention guys in bands as having money. The most my last band made on a show was $100 amongst 4 band members. We were rolling in dough (Do you smell that it's sarcasm. Smells kind of like sour grapes.). A couple of jokes to further put things in perspective: What do you call a musician without a girlfriend? Homeless...... What's the difference between a Professional Musician and a Large Pizza? A large Pizza can feed a family of four. Peace Out, Rev J
musical talent, much like intelligence, good looks, charisma or money, is just another peacock's tail. plenty of women are perfectly content to support a musician financially because they find their talent to be something they enjoy and would likely enjoy their children inheriting.
I made a friend on here, 15 when I met her and the whole time I'd known her her favorite thing about a male body was a big set of balls *shrug*
i thought he moved. if hes still in the city then he should know theres a lot. expand and look more, believe me there are cool chicks
I'm tall but have a small build so most guys look big compared to me, and really big guys look huge next to me. I particularly like guys forearms, don't know why but a nice strong forearm oooo yeah. I don't tend to look at individual features but the whole deal and if it pleases or not. Looking back I've dated quite different looking guys. Had big lips once and that was quite sexy. Muscles are nice but not into the beefcake no-neck look. It would creep me out if a guy had smaller hands than me.
Ahh, i dont really have big hands either. And I'm not exactly short, but im not exactly tall. I don't make money. and my penis is average, possibly less than, i dont really know. No wonder i dont have a girlfriend. although i dont know what changed since highschool, except maybe the girls wise up? The only things i do have going for me, is i atleast try and be empathetic and compassionate and I'm pretty toned for some one who does not work out at all. This is more depressing then valentines day
I did, but she's far away now. I really hope there isn't one person for everyone, because if there is, i lost her
I bet that there is someone else out there for you... you seem like a nice person so I'm sure it will all work out.
SORRY.!!......Wrong Thread Xac, This Post Should Have Gone In The "What I Hate About Myself" Thread..... Please, As An Older And Wiser Man Than You, Allow Me To Give You Some Positive Advice. Dye Your Hair Black, Put On Some Sad Music, Buy Yourself A Totally Black Wardrobe, A Tee-Shirt That Says..."Emo's Rock", And Finally Buy A Thrifty Pac Of 100 Razor Blades, And Cut....Cut....Cut..... Problem Solved..... Cheers Glen.