So my wife has always been quiet during sex. Of course being a guy, i have worried about that. Even when there were no kids in the house she’s relatively quiet. I will encourage to make noise or let me know when its feeling good and she will give soft moans but thats it. Very little facial expression as well. I make sure she cums EVERY time we fuck and yes she gets slightly louder then and makes the ugly “orgasm face” but thats it. Can a women that makes no noise and has very little expression be feeling as much pleasure as a woman who moans and shows obvious signs of being fucked good? Whats the truth behind quiet woman? If a guy with a 10” cock fucked her would she moan with passion?
Only way to know is to try a man with a bigger cock or a big dildo, vibrator. What about when her clitoris is played with? Oral and fingering
She has an ultra sensitive clit. She responds to oral and fingers but only wants to make herself cum. She only had clit orgasms. The biggest sign I get that she is when she starts rocking her hips when im tonguing her pussy or fingering her. She says she prefers being fingered over oral but never makes a sound. Ive’ used a 2” extension on her months ago. She started moaning and seemed to like it but pulled it off my cock after a couple minutes. I think she didn’t want to lose control and make me feel bad.
@JCSouthern1 Maybe if you tell her you are doing it for her with the extension. If you are not offended or hurt by the change, and tell her how it would make you feel if she has a stronger orgasm
I said something to that affect. She just won’t let go and allow herself to be sexually free. I tell her that i would do anything she’s ever fantasized about. Or at least be open to it. Then she said “ i don’t have sexually fantasies”. But on the flip side there have been times when ive got her really turned on and she’s let go a little. Once telling me “ i want you in my ass and a big dildo in my pussy”. So i know her inner slut is hiding in there somewhere. Why are women so reluctant to be sluts for their husbands. The phrase “Lady in the street and a freak in the bed “ is what all men want. Women don’t understand that men connect that with emotional love. My wife doesn’t understand that her fucking me and showing enthusiasm about it makes me the most happy and confident i can be.
How about writing it to her? Gives you the chance to choose your wording and not miss a thing you want to tell her
My first wife was very vocal but when we stayed in hotel she would suppress her noise so the neighbours wouldn’t hear her and wouldn’t let me pound her hard because of headboard noise.. about our fifth hotel stay a couple in the next room we’re having a wild wild session and we could hear them as if we were in the same room. This got her so excited she wanted to fuck bad and we did and she moaned and groaned and called out to God and to me to fuck her harder and harder so loud they could hear her in the next hotel I think.. she never held herself back after that.. Maybe your wife just needs a little lesson to know that it’s all right to let it out..
I guess that’s possible, I don’t know. Even when we had anal sex she was quiet. I mean yeah an occasional “mmmm” or she would whisper “easy”. I am by no definition big and by just about every definition average in length at 6” but have above average girth which she has always commented on. I guess i shouldnt be so hung up on it. Too much porn watching i guess. I just want to know if there’s a size that hits her in just the right spot and makes her lose control and just surrender to the pleasure. As far as I’m concerned she’s the only women i’ll ever be with for the rest of my life. I just want her to be able to experience the most intense pleasure she can and enjoy sex to the max. Seeing and hearing her enjoy herself triples the pleasure for me.
My first girlfriend, we were both 20, was a single mum with 2 little curious boys. She and I went at it hard and fast, and not a murmor out of her. I rammed in as hard as I could, probably to get a reaction, but not a murmor. Smiles, orgasmic grimaces and vag muscle spasms I felt but no sound. Even when she squirted all over me in cowgirl position, and she had that 'coming hard' grimace, not a whisper. I guess having kids who she didn't want to disturb, had taught her that.
