This single gal at work has been giving be blowjobs for a long time. I have asked her out a couple of times, but she always said she didn't have time for dating. Finally last week she invited me to her apartment for a drink after work. Of course I accepted. When we got to her apartment, she never gave me a drink, she went straight for a blowjob. But before I cum, she stood up, lifted the back of her skirt, slid down her panties and leaned over the end of the couch. She said "fuck me". And she also said "go ahead, it's safe". So I happily obliged. I pumped her pussy hard for about 10 minutes. She seemed to be enjoying it very much. But as I was nearing my climax she suddenly says "don't cum inside of me". I said what? She loudly repeated "don't cum inside of me!" Well, it was already too late. She gets all mad, pushes me away, throws my clothes at me and tells me to get out. Now she wont even talk to me at work. I don't get it. What did I do wrong?
Jake. Jake. Jake. Come on buddy. This chick...sounds like a real keeper, I gotta say -- giving blow jobs without even dating you --- then this stuff at the apartment. I'll tell you what you did wrong, you didn't use a CONDOM!!! .....who knows what this weirdo slut has. Why aren't you afraid of STDs!!!? Yeah she's probably worried you knocked her up....good luck with that.
I have to say that she probably just wants a friend with benefits which i am guessing this rules out letting go inside her. She doesnt want anything that requires any type of emotional connection just physical. you probably broke that rule
In the movie How High, at the end, the local pimp begins a class at Harvard University called Pimpology 101. I HIGHLY suggest you take that class or read a book. You gotta use your fuckin common sense dude, literally! Just because she said she's safe without any proof doesn't mean she is. It's like when a girl says I'm on the pill and you can cum in me. Dude, you gotta take better precautions, seriously. NEVER EVER, EVER EVER EVER EVER cum in a girl your aren't really serious about. Because you'll become a baby daddy with a crazy ass baby mama. this might sound rude, but I go get a plan b/morning after pill and make sure she takes it!!!!!
You really don't understand what you did wrong? Forgetting the non-safe sex, you came inside her literally while she was telling you not to come inside her. She obviously didn't want that, maybe she has religious views, and now she has to murder her baby, or even worse, keep it. You turned what should have been a really hot sexual episode into a pregnancy scare.
Actually no, if she chooses to keep it's not a worse scenario, it's just different. Both parties are at fault for failure to communicate before the sex took place. "i'm safe" < Vague statement --- Regardless OP is kinda at the mercy of what this girl wants to do now. He also blew any chance of dating her if he had any intention of wanting a serious relationship with her, because he came off as an inconsiderate jerk for not heeding her request to "pull out and not ejaculate in her". Legally, she could sue him for rape.
Who's the bro? -- bro... >:\ I had my tubes tied, seriously. ....but I'm not going to sleep with someone who doesn't know me well enough to trust me like that. .....I think girls who try to get pregnant are NUTS...nine months of hell, NO thanks!
