Hey, can I kick I'minmy-spongebobsquare-underpants out of here? Sheesh! I like the guy and all, but I started this thread for my own whining!
Hey, no trash talking Mr. Undies! You do deserve your own thread though, as undies deserves his. I've been meaning to post more lately, but I've been super busy and not on HF much
^ No, though I do like star wars, at least the old films. You totally have a hard-on for star wars more than anyone else that I know.
Well, "it" happened again. Gawddamn. Here I am, being nice to the young ladies in college, and they start getting weird. Ask me why I'm paying somuch attention to them, and I tell them the truth- I like their personalities and enjoy talking to them. They get REALLY suspicious, and ask me "what do you mean?". So I tell them- Listen, this hormones thing, I'm a guy, you're girls, it happens. But I'm not looking for that. I enjoy talking with you. Then they go super weird. -sigh- Can't win for losing.
I don't know---the whole deal sounds kind of shallow to me. Planning little moves and poses and so forth. Again---I don't know. Maybe I was just lucky for being tall,looking good, carrying myself as if I owned any place I entered and actually NOT giving a shit if I "hooked up" or not. I'm always been a very easy guy to talk to and I was and am very much interested in what others have to say. So, I'm sure others "hooked up" much more than I did, but when it came time for intimacy--it just happened pretty naturally. And of course I'm old now and not in the so-called "hunt." Still horny, but if someone happens into my life, I won't be posing, but it's not likely these days. So it goes--I've had my time. Also, pretty much say what I think these days, regardless. Like always.
your profile says 45 - which is why you aren't having any luck with the nice young ladies in college.
Dating is confusing to me as well. I can only start relationships with easy girls who I sleep with the first night. If I date the traditional way and get to know her first, we both wins up losing interest for some reason. It's the opposite because most guys don't see easy lays as relationship material. And those girls I slept with early on would always say things like "This isn't me. I don't do this." And then they become my girlfriend later.
LOL, yeah cos none of them would want 40 something guys Logan, half of them probably dating some guy at least 10 years older, its all about idiotic daddy issues, the main reason you are having trouble, you dont look like their dad yet....or dont have enough money
Sheesh. "Date"? Nah. "Friends"? Yeah. Keep in mind what I said- "Here I am, being nice to the young ladies in college, and they start getting weird." And weird they got. I'm not talking about fucking. For Christ's sake, these KIDS likely don't know much more about sex other than it's a three letter word with a vowel in it. And if they do know more than that, I really don't care. I'm not looking for that.
Here's one for ya- twins. In class. NO CONTACT. I don't know their names, I don't say hello to them, I don't even LOOK at them. They sit on the other side of the room from me. And they both already made a verbal Title IX complaint against me. What the fuck is this shit? So far their complaint has fallen on deaf ears, but the fact remains- they made a complaint for no reason based on nothing but as what Meliai said- age. Cunts. They NEED laid.
what do you look like? a seedy degenerate? a gentleman? what? Some poeple get a bad vibe just about how someone looks, i think.....
Attraction and desire is not a good thing it needs to be overcome, then you will have some clarity, then you'll see life in a calm and sane way