Hi there! Like many young women I too avoided the topic of anal with my amazing man for 5 years. I do have some advice, RELAX. Take a moment to disregard the nevatives you've heard and the fear that society has drilled into your head about the taboo aspect of it. I went through our 1st. Sexual slump after 5 years and desperately wanted to spice it up. I looked through my man's porn for ideas and what he likes. I found A LOT that honestly boggled my mind! Big asses (all lubed up up of course.), anal/gaping assholes, and others relating to asses at one point. He always liked my butt and over the last few months I gained weight up to 118 lbs at 4"11 and prior to this I was about 90 lbs and really kind of fragile..so I decided to do anal and surprise him with my new BIG BOOTY LOL. I mustered up courage to go to the adult store on my street Suzie's and bought a nice vibe to play with along with a booty buzz vibrating butt plug! Best buy EVER! Along with the toys i purchased a nice lube and a lace body suit, Crotchless of course so your ass cheeks are nice and naked and you dont have to take anything off The 2nd best decision I made that day was to practice, arouse yourself up until orgasm, put the plug on light vibe setting to adapt and it feels great once you're aroused and the blood is flowing! Lube it up, and your butt, slowly put it in at the same time you should be stimulating your clit to keep the good feelings going! Once your through the 1st sphincter then the 2nd, if its too much try different angles of entry. I did and honestly Im a TINY PETITE GIRL that took his whole dick the same night. Granted, I have a routine that works every time..I love my man so much I always blow bim 1st. Give him great head, he's super pumped for MY TURN haha I then get great head while he licks, sucks, fingers my pussy with care and gives me the come hither on my g spot AND fingers my ass. BEST FEELINGS I'VE EVER FELT DURING SEX. I came and asked him if he wanted my ass and he did. Took it slow as he played with my clit simultaneously, it felt awesome. I felt so good and loved since he does everything with care and romance, such a Pisces man! I felt this rush and my skin waa red and flushed, he kisses my neck and back and I WAS GONE AND LEFT STRAIGHT TO HEAVEN. An amazing experience hands down..I'm so glad I made the decision to do this because since then after 5 years we have been having explosive sex and I really hope you consider spicing things up! Best wishes and lots of enthusiasm! AT
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Women and anal? Do women really even care for anal that much? From what I can tell from the oral and anal sex forum, is that men seem to be more into it... even when it comes to receiving!
Lots of women love anal. Some of them even prefer it. However, they tend to not advertise that too much, because they get spammed with unwanted attention from a bunch of guys, and because while anal can be amazing if done correctly, most people don't know how to do it correctly and someone receiving anal generally wants to make sure they can trust their partner before allowing something like anal. But yes, with proper training, warmup and lube, anal can give a woman a feeling of intense fullness and more powerful orgasms than from vaginal sex or from clitoral play on its own.
I love anal sex we use baby oil gently ease your bf cock in once in feels amazing we fuck for hrs one thing I don't get a orgasm so we use a sex toy for my clit then whoosh orgasm comes gushing out
I don't get it. I am 50, in my generation anal sex was not popular, not that it didn't exist - just rare. For me..I have no desire to put a VALUABLE part of me into a place where sh*t comes out of. And licking an asshole?? Seriously - WTF??
Anal is amazing when done correctly. If you 'empty and clean' in advance and use a proper natural lube like coconut oil there should be no adverse after effects either. My husband and I have been anal only for almost 6 months and I'm loving it. No issue with poop if I'm prepared. No pain because we have practiced and my muscles are toned and relaxed. No fear of pregnancy so he can finish inside which is FAR more intimate than pull out or condums. And my orgasms are more intense when he is in pumping my ass. We keep it so clean and healthy he can cum inside me multiple times in one session with no need for grand clean ups or even reapplying lube. It's just so natural like that. Plus the added benefits that semen have on the body! Woo it is good stuff
Just like having vaginal sex for the first time, it can be painful. Especially if bothare inexperienced. But, once you get a hang of it, and allow yourself and your partner to play around without the pressure of going too far it will soon become easy and extremely pleasurable. I like anal play with a partner as well as solo... and lucky me my partner loves it too
You have to be careful about frequent enemas. You can kill off or evacuate all of your gut flora, render yourself incapable of digesting food, and require the worst medical procedure I've ever heard of. A fecal transplant. Yeah. They will make you eat shit in a hospital. Oh, sure. They'll try to get the poo from a close relative. Like that's not embarrassing. "Hey, mom. I fucked up my gut literally getting fucked up my gut. Can we please test your turds for compatibility for donation?" Nobody wants that chat. And yes, they will put the feces into capsules. But you will have shitty burps, and you may have to spend days being monitored in hospital. Have your fun. Have it cleanly and safely. Just know that anal-only means you may have to limit the number of encounters per month. I do not know what the safe number of enemas is, but... Do not exceed it.
God yes! Maybe it's not for everyone but I love anal with my man. He is always takes his time stretching me out. He kisses on my neck or rubs on other areas at the same time and it's amazing. Also creates this crazy intamicy between us. Often, after amazing sex, he will grab an anal plug and put it in my cum filled pussy and then slide it in my ass. Then we clean up and I leave it in. Even if it's 8am, I will leave it in while we run errands, go to the park anything. It's our sexy little secret. And then when our kids go to bed, he can take it out and my ass is ready for him to fuck. It's pure heaven. If you don't like anal, you just haven't had a mad do it right
