I have never been able to orgasm. But I do in my sleep. It's awsome. I don't even know how to masturbate to get there. I'm 35. 2 kids. Nice husband who would like to help. I am missing out. Can anyone help?
I dated an older woman who couldn't orgasm.I tried everything to help from hours of oral to toys and intercourse.it was only when we started watching porn together that things started to move along. Even when I wasn't there she would watch porn and that's what opened her mind to different types of sex and fetishes. She began masturbating more and trying new things and one day it happened. It was her mind that was the problem and porn opened it up and she explored her body trying new things. After that there was no stopping her. She was straight but loved watching women masturbate and copying what they did. After years her first orgasm came from pushing pantyhose inside herself while rubbing her clit.I loved watching her masturbate and that turned her on too.it took a few months of exploring before it happened but life was better for her from then on.Porn isn't always bad. It could free you from yourself and open your world. Hope things get better for you.
Having an open relationship may help. Other people pleasure themselves differently and you may meet someone who could do it just the right. It's something that you would want to discuss with your husband of course. All the best.
Porn would be the easiest place to start. alot of people hae hangups about letting go of their own sexual experience and actually experienceing it instead of trying to fight it and guide it. ay back, relax, have some wine, and go onto fuq or xnxx and scroll until you find something that excites you. talk to your partner about it and make it extremely clear that you need their support and to leave the judgement at the front door. you dont need anyones snide opinions when you're trying to explore your fantasies. take it slow though. slow gentle rubbing on the clit even over fabric should be enough to start the blood flowing, but close your eyes and imagine the most passionate scenario you can and keep your hands moving, slowly. The most important thing I've found is consistency when it comes to orgasm. find the places you like to stimulate and experiment with your erogenous zones. And don't be afraid to kink. Vanilla/Cis life isnt for everyone and alot of people get shuffled off into these terrible relationships where the sex isnt what they need and they convince themselves that its something that they want. If self exploration doesnt do it for you, What role do you usually take int he bedroom? playful dom or a passive submissive? It could be as simple as getting on top and fucking HIM the way YOU want.
As this was posted some time ago - and there being no further posts, my guess is that the question may well have been answered(?) - which is nice
Honey just watch some porn. My favorite thing to watch is to girls eating each other out. I play with my nipples get them really hard. I even suck them while my pussy is throbbing and I am so wet and as they start to moan and groan I rub my clit faster and faster and I cum in seconds. Nothing turns me on more. I can have 3 orgasms, one after the other. So fuckin' amazing!
