Wives who conceal their sexual past from husbands

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  1. Joboo6

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    Hello all, while discussing this privately with someone I thought it might be a good subject to broach here in the love and sex area. I would think many have experienced this as I have and I would think most times it's the wife who deceives since guys usually brag about sex.
    Back in my day the late 70's and early 80's it was somewhat customary for couples that became serious to have a disclosure session as to not have their partner surprised to find out they had slept with one or some of their friends.
    This happened to me and I fully disclosed, I admit I would have a problem back then considering marrying someone who had slept with someone I knew but it was far more likely to be an issue if I found out later rather than prior. I found out when we were engaged that my wife had dated someone I knew that she did not disclose. It was treated as a oversight since she had not slept with him. Later after marriage it seemed this wasn't quite true, since pictures from a couples vacation trip before we started dating were passed around at a gathering of friends of my wife. I saw a picture of she and him together in one of the pictures before she saw it and asked the hostess where this was taken and she proceeded to go on about a group trip to Boca and handed it around to my wife who suddenly became very quite. Seems it was seven nights in a four bedroom beach house with four couples. My wife and the guy she never slept with being one of the couples. Without going into great detail I lost a modicum of respect for my bride of less than a year that night
     
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  2. Deidre

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    If you had found this out sooner, would you not have married her?
     
  3. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Pretty much every female on the planet really, not just their past, but their current thought processes, what they know is likely to happen in the future

    And you will probably go your whole life with it hidden from you, all because of that last sentence
     
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    They probably were bigger than you too. :grin:
     
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  5. scratcho

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    One size fits all.
     
  6. Vanilla Gorilla

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    This other guy probably had a giant cock, fucked her brains out, gave her 20 orgasms in 4 hours and she cant stop touching herself thinking about him until this very day
     
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    My wife of many years had lovers and some sex adventures before me. And even today, if I found out more about her past life, I would think you go girl.
    Laugh it off. Be happy she is yours now. Respect her more. This could really be positive if you let it. I live by the old saying. It is a womans prerogative to reveal or not to reveal her past. We are a senior couple and are not judgemental at all. We believe each person should explore their own sexual limits and enjoy the ride.
     
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    Short of hangin' around a donkey pen in late evening, I never cared. Why would I expect a woman to relate her sexual past? The women I've been with had lives before I came slinkin' around.
     
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  9. Deidre

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    Agree but think the OP’s issue is that he knew the guy and she didn’t tell him.
     
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    Guess I should have read the whole thing. Dang me.
     
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    When I first saw the thread title, I thought it said Women That Conceal Their Sexual Parts From Husbands.
     
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    My wife and I started dating in high school, but went to colleges 100 miles apart. We agreed to date others, but still maintain our commitment to each other. I knew she was fooling around with her dates, and when I mentioned it to her, she told me that was true. What I didn't ask was if she was actually having sex with them. After we were married, I asked that question, and she said, "Yes, I had sex with a few of them." I was surprised, but not angry or even disappointed in her.
     
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    She def loves big cocks slapping her face. :D
     
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  14. McFuddy

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    Lol damn some of you guys are fucked up. Funny, but fucked up.
     
  15. Joboo6

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    Possibly
     
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    Give it another ten years, you will probably be begging her to bang other guys to show she has a pulse in her lady parts
     
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  17. Joboo6

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    Good that your wife was honest.
     
  18. Joboo6

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    I'm 6'4" 235, lol!
     
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    i meant their cocks.
     
  20. Joboo6

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    I think you miss the point here, it's not about the sex. I was involved with three ladies in a casual way when we met.
    It was about her wanting to know who I had been with and if she knew them and I asked the same. She withheld the relationship and she was aware that I knew him. It's about the lack of honesty and trust. I can understand why since women especially back then had to live by a double standard. I think my issue more than anything was her lack of trust in me to be able to deal with it, he wasn't a friend so to speak we just knew each other from mutual friends.
     

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