My fiancé and I are having sex using condoms to prevent her from getting pregnant. We'd like to wait a year or so and then try to have a baby. Instead of using condoms my fiancé suggested that I just pull out at the last second and cum on her stomach or into the sheets. It seems to me that the precum would still be a pretty major risk; I don't produce a lot but I get a few drips when I'm horny. Does anyone have any experience with the pull out method? How well did it work?
pull out is NOT birth control. Pre cum contains sperm, so once that gets inside of her, there is a chance of pregnancy. Stick with the condoms. If she hates the way they feel, she can take the pill. BUT you can still get pregnant on the pill. I did. You are not married yet, what's the rush to have a kid? Take some time to get to know each other as husband and wife. Save up 6 months worth of expenses. Read What to expect when you're expecting. Both of you. Having a kid is expensive (beginning with pregnancy) and emotionally exhausting. Make sure you are both emotionally mature enough to handle it. -Mother of two
Condoms suck! But they get the job done! (I hate the way they feel, and so does hubby.) My advice, once you are both mature enough to handle kids, and you have as many as you can afford, get a vasectomy. It's cheaper if you get it done (less complications and faster recovery time) as opposed to her doing it. I witnessed my hubby's and I love him for making that decision. We have sex more often now that I don't have to worry about getting pregnant. (I miscarried our third, so didn't want to take the chance on it happening again. We have 2 beautiful healthy kids and that was enough for us.)
It's actually pretty hard to get pregnant. And as long as you don't bust a nut in her, withdrawal is only like 2% less effective than condoms. But, if you're having sex 3 or 4 times a week, eventually that 2% will catch up to you.
Withdrawal is only effective if you're able to pull out in time every time you have sex. A better way is for her to track her ovulation by taking her temperature each morning. After she has ovulated, you're safe to go bareback.
Condoms are one of the greatest inventions of all time. They are cheap and easy. Have all the sex you want with almost no risk of pregnancy or std.
My ex thought he could do this. I was on the shot then but he didn't know it. We talked about him pulling out and then we had sex and he "forgot." Just wear the condoms unless you're planning to have a baby.
Pulling out worked for me for a few years. While i didnt want a kid, it wouldnt have been the end of the world if i did. We both had decent jobs and good places to live. The only part i dont know about is if she would want me to move in with her if she got pregnant. We were happy with having seperate lives and just seeing each other when we wanted to have fun. I guess i will never know now.
Don't rely this really. I can advice you to use ovulation control tests - they are simple and you will always know when the possibility of conceiving is highest to avoid it. My cousin used this methos very succesfully for two years - his fiance was from Ukraine, he found her on originclub.com or facebook - and she said him that in her country girls prefer sex without condom, but pulling out is very unreliable - so it's better to use special tests
I can advice you to use ovulation control tests - they are simple and you will always know when the possibility of conceiving is highest to avoid it. My cousin used this methos very succesfully for two years - his fiance was from Ukraine, he found her on originclub.com or facebook - and she said him that in her country girls prefer sex without condom, but pulling out is very unreliable - so it's better to use special tests
ok older topic but. yes pre cum has sperm. and guys can you honestly say you Can pull out the split second before you cum. I would have a hard time in doing so. all I want to do is go in as deep as possible as I cum. and it does not feel the same even if you do cum out side
Well I really want kids a lot...ex didnt so she is the ex... I am willing to try this methode with one of the spicy attitude women here to see if it works.
