Will Your Partner's Sexaul Relation With Others In The Past Hurts Your Committed Relation?

Will your partner's sexual relation with others in the past hurts your committed relation?

 

Hurts just thinking about it

 

Definitely not!

It turns me on immensely to imagine what my wife got up to with other lovers. I ask her about this a lot and she likes to hear about my previous sexploits too.

It makes for some wonderful dirty talk!

 

Get over it. The past is the past. We have to live for today.

Think about it... If nobody wanted your partner in the past, why would you want him/her now? Has something important changed? You don't want a loser.

 

i guess it depends on the details. like, if she had a bunch of herpes, that might be an issue. not necessarily a dealbreaker, but it certainly wouldn't help matters.

 

Absolutely not. It's called "being an adult".

 

Absolutely NOT. I've had my fair share of experiences, so it wouldn't even be FAIR to get mad at something he has previously done.

 

She's with you now and she has a reason for that. Don't fuck it up by being insecure about it.

 

That's about the present, not the past.

 

I think it's cute to both be virgins and then experience sex life together. probably because that's what we did.

 

yeah, but it most likely came from sexual relations in the past. of course, if it came from outside sexual relations in the present, it's a whole other can of worms.

 

This very topic came up. And it bothered the person who asked. I am not with the others.....so not sire why a big deal.