this is more about vaginal sex but ya..... So about 18 months ago I had sex for the first time. it was horrible and incredibly painful and embarrassing, mainly because we struggled for ages to actually get it to go in. I did bleed afterwards but it was so bad that I just strayed away from sex all together . Now I've been with somone for a while and he and I would like to have sex but, I am worried that after so long my "cherry" so to speak will have some what repaired itself and I will have to go through the awful experience all over again and that it will put him off... what should I do? (I have already spoken with him about this) any tips on good positions to make it easier and more enjoyable for him (and me lol)? p.s. Not had much experience in this area (as you can probably tell) so detail would be great! Also I'm 19 and female (just encase it didn't come across)
Just take your time. Does your vagina get moist/wet, prior to him penetrating you? If not, try something like AstroGlide, to allow his penis to enter your vagina much easier and without the pain.
