Wifes opinion on Pegging and using the Strapon

While in our prudent past, a strapon and pegging was a kink for very kinky, where today it seems to be a common place practice. I never considered it until a wonderful woman taught me otherwise.
This has been a very viable alternative to sexual fulfilment for both husband and wife, depending on the situations involved.
My wife had a mature educated view on it and it has worked for us. While I was always uptight about my anything like that. After my first experience my uptight attitude went right out the window.
Do you feel that education has debunked most of the sterotypes of the past?
Has your wife ever wanted to put a dildo up your butt? I have had pegging fun with 5 different women, who all made the first move. It has become a mainstream pleasure to share.
What would your lady think if you asked for it?
What would you think if your lady asked you ?

 

My wife and I started pegging about a year ago, but before that, I had two gfs who used their fingers in my ass. In both cases, they were the ones who initiated it. In both cases I was all for it. With the second one, it became a regular part of our sex play, and she would almost always put one or two fingers up my ass as part of foreplay or while we were fucking.

I was the one who suggested it to my wife, and surprisingly, she was all for it. She started with a finger, but we quickly went to dildoes and strapons. I think that particularly for older couples, it can be a very satisfying part of a sexual relationship. The fact that it is still a little "taboo" just adds to the excitement.

 

My wife pointed at a strap on jokingly in a sex shop. I was trying to be shy in public I guess .
While we have limited anal play I don't think she wants to peg me and possibly won't initiate it.
I get a hooker to peg me once because I want it

 

I've welcomed it and will continue to welcome. She enjoys using the toys on me.

 

Being shy probably cost you the opportunity to expand on the topic.

 

Im sure you are right.Just needs an opening to break the ice but I think we both don't align on thes

 

Correct, had to take the opportunity before she changed her mind.
I don't think there is anything wrong with it if the couple are willing and we don't discuss sex around our close friends ,well I hope she doesn't,.
I'm open to a lot of things but she is not.
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Phones fucked, unlike me.
It's freezing and fucks up my posts.

 

Try again, yes being shy, unsure or lacking confidence have possibly cost a few opportunities.

I think I've had female friends who might have been up for an NSA fuck just because the opportunity was there at the time.

A young guy was wanting to dance with my Mrs years ago, thinking back he was wanting to get to know her or us and we had a motel room but I did not consider there was anything in it.
I'm not sure what we would have done if he was a plus one but I'm sure she would have liked the attention but not sure if she would have asked him back.
Then is the question of how would I react with another guy if we all got together. Might have been an eye opener for her if I was open to try Bi.

 

I asked my wife but she isn't into it. She'll put a vibe against my arse which feels great but she doesn't seem to want to push it in.. hopefully she'll build up to it.

 

My girlfriend pegs me every so often. Im bisexual and regularly indulge in dildo play. She is quite happy doing pretty much anything as long as I'm enjoying it.

 

That's how it should . If you are in a relationship then you should be looking to please your partner or be pleased by your partner.

This is within reason of course and there will be different boundaries for different couples but I don't think girls pegging their partners should be a hard no if he is into it and happy for it make it a part of play unless she has some reason she really won't try. She may think it's weird but it's not gay and it's a pleasure zone and if you relax and play together you can open possibilities

 

My wife wants no part of pegging.. I would like to try it but she says absolutely no way. I do have a prostate massager which I use when she is out the house sometimes and I enjoy it very much. She knows I bought it and she knows I use it but just so I use it when she is not around.

 

"Ain't nobodys bussiness but your own" if you cant discuss it with your S/O, who can you ? There are a lot of thing that my wife would never bring up. but in an open discussion we learned a lot of things we were curious about.
There is "No Harm, NO Fould" about asking, anything. You don't know until you ask.

 

My wife is more than willing to use a dildo on me but for some reason refuses to use a strap on
Doesn't make a lot of sense to me, but I enjoy what I can get.

 

My wife's knows I'd like to try it but she's not into it and won't try it unfortunately. Likewise for any anal play.

 

My wife is the same as yours wants no part of pegging

 

Dont the wifes care ? I basicly had to educate my wife to the facts. It just feels so fuckin good and it promotes prostate health. My wife feels like she is doing something good for me when she pegs me. Im not sure what she gets out of making me suck her strapon before fucking me with it.

 

Maybe she fancies fucking another girl with a strap on?

 

Wife enjoyed fucking my ass with the strapon, but they were all loose and sloppy and a pain to put on I purchase a pair of the penis pants and it fits like a glove. She likes it a lot better and so do I.