I met my wife over 12 years ago. I was in a relationship with someone else at the time and we tried swinging. We actually only bid it once with the couple we met. I ended up falling and marrying the woman in the other relationship. Since we’ve been together I’ve always felt like she’s not satisfied like I was keeping her from enjoying other women. She tells me no that she has what she wants in me. Well about 2 weeks ago she brought up how a friend of hers want to sleep with her and she wants to. I’m sorta ok with it. I want her to be happy and satisfied. I’m just worried that I may lose her. It’s nothing to do with her. It’s all in my head I know. But would like some input from some like minded people.
Is it anther female freind?? I know guy who started swinging was having great time than his wife had a guy with big thick cock . He told me thats all she ever wanted after that.. She was going over the big guys place hooking up with him all time ended up leaving him?? lest thats story he told me?? said would never swing again with his woman??
Yes another female friend. Sorry I didn’t specify. It’s actually how me and my wife met thru swinging. We were in separate couples and we just fell for each other. This is the first time we’ve considered doing something like this since we’ve got together. To be completely honest I’m excited about it but nervous too. I want it to work so more things could possibly happen. I’m just afraid I’m going to be the one that screws things up. Plus I think if was someone we didn’t know I’d feel a bit better about it.
I think you are entering uncharted territory. Sharing is difficult, and I think it requires scrupulous honesty. Yes, it is possible to have someone just as a fb, but I think it is difficult to predict how a given relationship will go.
I have asked my boyfriend the same thing. Would love to bring an other woman with us sometime. Hes a bit reluctant as well. Seems like men think all women are unnable to be comfortable with sharing. He is scared i might hold this against him in the future. But it really isnt the case. I think it would be pretty hot... and it might not be perfect like i fantasize about it but practice makes perfect
It’s not that I’m not comfortable sharing it’s that I get into my own head. That is where my big worry is. My wife are going to have their time together. There is nothing set in stone that I would join. Plus if I am part of it so will the other girls guy. I’m still not sure how I feel about sharing her with a guy just yet.
But something I would love to have happen is her and her friend to be having fun when I come home from work. I would love to be tied to a chair while I watch and couldn’t touch. Maybe after awhile they let me join in on the fun. If not that’s ok too.
It is the other way round for me, I have a big sex drive and my wife understands this that is why she is sharing me with her cousin. I think she is seeing someone but not sure,I would not mind if this happens after all I am having sex with her cousin
For a while I became impotent, and I encouraged a friend of mine to fuck my wife, just to keep her calm, and satisfied. Unfortunately, when I got back my virility, she had become his woman, and I couldn't get her back. We still live under the same roof, and are still married, and she looks more fantastic than ever, but I am not allowed to touch her. She forbids me from touching, and he forbids me from touching her The house is jointly owned with her, so I can't do much about it. I just abide by the rules. They sleep in the master bedroom, and I sleep in a small bed alongside, listening to them making love, while I masturbate. All is fair in sex and love, my friend tells me. Incidentally,we are still good friends
now thats a crazy relationship.. But long as you ok with it?? me i d get a devorce sell house spit money and move on..Or have them buy you out
Imagine this: King Kong on top of the Empire State Building just finished fucking that beautiful girl. King kong then says, "What do you mean is that it?" There are some humans that are just insatiable in the area of sex. Men are no diff than women.
His is NOT your friend. He takes your wife and tells you to keep your hands off. Move on dude. Document everything, get a divorce and split the assets and find a new partner that is loyal to you and a new friend that's loyal to you too.
Work on knowing yourself completely and you won't be worried about losing her. You will simply understand that you both have taught and learned all the lessons that were to be learned and it will be easy to say thank you and good bye.
I would walk in the master bedroom in the middle of the night unnanounced with a 12 gauge shotgun loaded with 2 shells one for him and one for her.
