Hello, My wife and I are fairly healthy and active individuals. My wife is 72 and I am going to be 63 in April. Ever since being diagnosed with low testosterone and being on bi-weekly testosterone injections and taking a daily maca supplement, my libido is off the chart. My wife and I have a "date night" maybe once every other week. When we do make love she seems to be into it but since I am so "ramped up" I finish most of the time before she does. My first question is, what can I do to last longer and second, what possibly can I do to get her more interested in sex again? Thanks.
My wife wasn't interested in Sex anymore either, at her age, but like you, I was horny. While she didn't want sex herself, she said that she would fuck me with the strapon. Let's just say it was mutually acceptable for both of us and I alwayswind up having incredible orgasms. It's also good for prostate health.
This is a rather easy problem to fix. You could try any or a combination of these things: You can try switching your position if you feel you're about to peak too soon. If you're doing missionary, for example, and you feel it coming too soon, switch to doggy if you can. Doggy is a relatively easy position for all body types, and it often allows for deeper penetration, which helps the female. Pull out for a bit and "finger" or go down on her to extend your time before you go back in. Make sure she orgasms somehow before penetration even starts (my boyfriend and I do this often, as I can't orgasm from penetration). Masturbate to completion before having sex. This will definitely extend your time. It kind of desensitizes you ever-so-slightly and makes you a little less desperate to bust. I may be missing some techniques, but these are all I can remember for now! lol Much luck to you both! I hope your sex lives improve tenfold!
