Wife misled me about past lover

JM01 · Aug 30, 2022

Joboo6 said: ↑

I’ve known for a while that my wife, then gf lied to me about dating someone I vaguely knew. She and I discussed our past lovers and I knew she had gone out with a guy I vaguely knew, I knew this because of her mother calling me his name several times, I played ball against him in HS.
My then gf told me she only met him out one night with a group of friends, that was it. After we married I found out she dated the guy several months and went on beach trip with him and her friends.
First it was her mom accidentally calling me his name even after we married, she still insisted they had never really dated. The I see pictures of my wife and her friends at the beach right before we started dating, it was easy to see from the pictures they were a couple. When I saw these pics at her friends house she panicked a bit and started telling me some of the truth but stopped short of admitting they had been intimate. Why then did you lie about dating him? We had shared our past about people we slept with especially if we both knew them. How would this make you feel?
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That would upset me. I’m not ok with being lied to. It’s the disrespect and principle of the matter, especially if it was a lie that was repeated over and over for many years. Not cool, regardless of the subject.

Joboo6 · Aug 31, 2022

I’m pretty sure she was still seeing him as FWB when we started dating.

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