Right now and asking if she should hook up with him. When I asked what she wants to do she says "idk!" Is she fishing for me to tell her to do it?
No, I think it was a try out for a threesome. Vetting process. Unless the phrase "his huge cock" gets used.
I was just making conversation. Didn't know everyone would take it so harshly. She says "idk" when I ask her if she wants me to tell her what to do. Was just looking for advice.
,advice....I would think the decent and moralistic of us would advise you to stop fantasizing about your wife with another dude and put an end to her stepping out....get your marriage in order...... the exception to this is if you are some how unable to have sex with your wife and are allowing an open marriage because of that reason in which case my advise would be to stop fantasizing about her with other dudes and don't attempt to discuss it with her unless she opens up that topic...... making yourself sound like you are rubbing your hands together and drooling over this and that is creepy girls will put up with almost anything except creepy
Unless you're just getting into that lifestyle....shouldn't she already have been down this road enough times that she shouldn't have to ask what to do?
yes I have...you apparently do not have one....open marriage is a fucking myth with very few exceptions....more often than not it is one of the people sick of the other and unable to break their hearts with a divorce or because of kids
make her hold the anal creampie til she gets home and straddle over your face and squirt it in your mouth.. ya know you wanna ..
considering it was mentioned in the post you are replying to, i think it's pretty clear that the poster has heard of it.
harsh? hmmm... I think nobody blamed you for anything ... up till now ;-) [except I miss smth] Advice? One thing is the communication (eg. asking her if she would feel more comfortable if you tell her OR asking what kind of ideas pop up in her mind OR if she wanna know your own fanatsies, etc.) MY advice? If she already lays out the damn hook to share my own fantasies, why not share it in the wildest way and look how she's reacting? BTW: What are your fantasies? You wanna have at the end a video with her and the guy while he fucks her? Or what are yours? [That she finally blames you for your fantasies? BUT why than ask for?] [Last remark: Fantasies are one issue - reality another - keep in mind: smts one is curious for fantasies - not for the things to get be done!]