Wife HATE's Mary! :(

why is it so hard to find that special someone who can enjoy a good blaze with you...
you chose the wrong girl

 

Probably should of thought of and taken care of this shit BEFORE you got married and had a child with her, dude. Not very bright move there, man, but no sense harping about water under the bridge. The other hipsters have already laid out the question -- which do you love more, which is more important? Getting toked off some reefer or your family? And, if the answer is both, then you better stop lying to your wife by smoking behind her back and be a fuckin' man and explain the situation to her.

Do you have a job or go to school? Because the only way I can see a chick being down on weed, is if it makes you a lazy fuck that doesn't support your family. As long as you're taking care of your and your's, and not putting your child at risk of being taken away, than I don't see the big deal.

 

You need to stop talking like that, man. You can't help who you fall in love with. If there is no way to convince his wife that his weed smoking is not hurting anyone, then he needs to do what's best for the family, which MAY include giving up the ganj for a while.

 

Man you had to know she was like this to start with. It even sounds like she was willing to try and be cool with the weed, but no you had to move on to harder crap then you expect her to believe what you say about pot. Its not going to happen. YOU proved to her that is always progresses past pot. You blew your shot. I think you have to be man and quit sneaking around. She has a right to know what her spouse is about. Man let me ensure you time with your kid is more important then the pot but you might have to make the choice.

 

I am straight. Weed doesnt make me tired, it actually helps me focus more on what I am doing. I have ADHD, or bipolar, whatever and I cant concentrate for shit. Weed help's me concentrate, and motivate. The reason she hate's it is because she grew up being told that weed is the worst drug ever, and it will lead to bigger and bader. Weed Kill's you and yada yada. I have had 2 backsurgery's. For a while she let me blow for medicinal purposes. Was great, we got along. But she was just mad that I did it, and that I supported it. She know's I have done enough drug's to probably kill a small country. The sad fact is that I think she would actually want me to drink rather than smoke. And I hate Liquer. But hey all thanks for the advice.

 

You got married when you were 12?

 

lol read it again and youll understand.... he met her when she was 12 and they just got married last july

 

stopped to think that the reason marijuana helps with these things is because youve smoked it throughout the biggest developmental phase of your adult brain? i doubt if you had started at like 17 or 18 youd have anywhere near the same reaction to weed, or more importantly, to not-having-weed


ps. this goes to a lot of peeps on this forum whove been smokin since young and claim that weed helps them

 

Get her high

 

It helps me, and I didn't start smoking until I was 16. I couldn't concentrate in school for shit before I started smoking and failed EVERY class, even PE. After I started smoking......straight A's and B's. It didn't matter though, because I got expelled because of weed......from two different schools in the same year

 

Shit, I even took my GED test when I was stoned as fuck and scored in the top 5% of Georgia graduates. Genius scores, apparently. I am no genius, though. Far from it.

 

Well knowing from experience how people react to knowing you use "drugs" when you were once a drug addict, its something thats best to just keep quiet about. Maybe in awhile you willl just get outta the normal smoking stages that your having and focus more on family, kids, not saying that you dont, but most adults when have children wll end up lowering the drug use...thats just my 2 cents though.

 

Man, People got it all Wrong

 

Dude, it's your wife, don't keep secrets from her. Talk to her, make a compromize, or just fucking quit dude, a drug shouldn't come between your wife and you, even if it is just a little bud.

 

i dunno, people say that but why should a wife get in the way of doing something thats become part of who you are? part of the person she married? sure a drug shouldnt get in the way of a good relationship, but is it a good relationship if shes unconditionally uncomfortable with knowing that you do something that clearly doesnt bring detriment to her (or else she wouldnt have stayed with you for almost half your lives)

 

i agree though that compromise should be acheived, if thats possible. she has justified worry if she never knew you smoked every day, and finds out now. she could feel that it may get out of hand if, say, she lost her job and you had to work extra hard, or you lost your job because of smoking, or anything like that. when its every day, even though you might still function normally, it means that, as you say even, if you for wahtever reason dont have weed, your priorities will include gettin more weed, and you will also be moody, and no one wants to have that sort of situation with their partner if its avoidable. so you know, these things have to be taken into account, caus non smokers dont understand why smokers smoke, and only see the practical negatives, that, they dont experience, but which the smoker just sees part of life

 

Doesn't it work, to bad for you.

Hell, for the law, if I join some sort of african or southern American christian type of religion I can legally use coke.

 

I wouldn't give up my dogs, or going to dog shows, or having beer when I want beer, or my love of strange Euro dance music, or the occasional urge to smoke up for somebody- and why should I- it's part of the package and she knows it, and wouldn't ask me to change myself, any more than I would her. Compromise is all good (no smoking in the house, around the baby, or whatever). Sounds like she needs to be educated on weed as others have mentioned. People fear most what they don't understand.

 

divorce the wife, marry Mary