Wife had affair but instead of getting mad I was turned on.

I am new to this forum but this is a 100 percent true story.
Many years ago my wife was on her last day of work due to the company she worked for was closing it's doors for good.
She called me and said she would take a male co-worker home because he needed a ride. Mind you this was before cell phones came along so the call was on a landline.
I did not see the big deal as I trusted my wife and had no reason not to.
The guy she took home lived roughly 20 miles from where we lived so i figured at the most should only take roughly an hour to do so.
I was in our apartment when this was happening and just watched TV not thinking much about it.
One hour passed by and she still was not home. Then two hours came and went and still not home. It was close to three hours and I was getting worried about how she was. Still not mistrusting her.
She finally walked in the door and was nervous. She just was not acting like her normal self and I picked up on that. I asked her what took so long and she replied that she got lost coming home and got all turned around.
Made sense to me, but the three-hour thing was still out of place. Even if lost it should not have taken three hours to figure out where you are.
How she avoided eye contact with me and how she acted started giving me ideas that something had happened. I kept talking to her and she was tripping up on her first excuse and the timeline.
She went into the bedroom and I followed her because I wanted to get intimate with her. Not because of all of this but just because I wanted to before any of this happened.
She got undressed (I can not remember if I helped her) and when she took her panties off I noticed they were soaked. I mean extremely soaked. When my wife is horny she always gets very very damp. Now I knew for sure something had happened. Seriously, Her body actions are like a lie detector. I kept talking to her and telling her that if she told me the truth I would be fine. I just could not handle lies. For a while she kept denying things but then during sex with me while talking to her she started to admit things.
She told me that she dropped him off but they were going to have a couple of drinks in the car to celebrate the last day. Not sure if she was blaming the drinks but she stated that he started kissing her, touching her, both outside and then under her dress. She said he was sliding his fingers in and out of her while kissing her.
I asked if they had sex and she said "No" and insisted all they did was play some in the car. Now I think most men would be extremely mad. And do not get me wrong because I was very mad. But I was also extremely turned on. This was a very new feeling for me and I was very confused by it then and I still am to this day.
I think the reason it turned me on is because during sex with her, she got extremely wet, and very turned on as if me asking her questions or catching her doing something naughty was a fantasy of hers. It was actually the best sex I had with her up to that day. It was amazing. I asked if she touched him and she said she rubbed him through his pants and could feel how hard he was. She said she wanted to have sex with him very bad but was scared of how much time went by and was worried I was going to find out. The more and more she told me I got far more excited. I was so into it and was trying not to show her how turned on I was. My wife is extremely beautiful. VERY sexual. Loves watching porn movies and masturbating. For whatever reason I do not think anything has turned me on more than my wife being with this man. Over the years I randomly talk to her about it and little by little more comes out. Not sure what the truth is but she went from saying she just rubbed him through his pants to now saying she took it out of his pants and was stroking it.
At times over the years I think of all this and can not control myself and if she is not home I masturbate and fantasize about it. Do I think they had sex? yes! But I think she is still too scared to tell me the truth.
I just wanted to get this out in the open and tell people the secret I had hidden for years. But how bad is it that I get turned on when my wife is soaked from other men?

 

My husband always gets turned on when he knows that I have been with another man!
I think that it's a guy thing and I like to make hubby happy!

 

So your husband lets you play? does that get you off also or do you do it for your husband?
After this happened with my wife she has "openly" played with other men. She would come home so soaked I would feel her run down my legs while we were together. Really got me off. If I am having sex with her while she watches movies on TX ( Porn) I could always tell what gets her off because she instantly gets very damp. Massive turn on to me.

 

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My big thing is I want her to talk to me about what she wants. What she thinks of. What she was truly feeling when with other men. But she will not. I think that she feels it will upset me and thus it makes her feel uncomfortable. But in fact THAT is my turn-on! and she does not realize that if I am very hot and turned on it will only benefit her ( and me of course).I do not need to be with other woman and I am very comfortable with my relationship. After all if she did not want to be with me then she should not lol so having this open relationship makes me feel great. Like I said I have never known a woman that would get this wet just by whispering in her ear about her past encounters. Very hot and I lose control.

 

It is amazing. she gets very worked up by watching people fuck on TV and also by me talking to her. Makes me extremely horny.

 

My wife also get very wet and loves flirting with other guys which makes our bedroom a lot more interesting

 

Welcome!!

Your wife is lucky you werent mad at her......

 

So far as I know and I've never had any reason to suspect otherwise my wife has remained faithful to me through the 23 years we've been together.
Before we met we both had fairly active sex lives, she had been in about 3 long term relationships, had many one night stands between those,She was a sex worker for a short time. I had been in an open marriage, in 3'sums, couple swapping, group sex, gang bangs and the like, but we agreed when we hooked up that we wanted a monogamous relationship and so it has been.
We have occasionally talked about bringing others into our bedroom but we've never actually followed through. However we occasionally role play and when this involves another guy in the fantasy it really makes her wet. She literally floods love juices. I've been fucking her at times and I randomly mention that there is a queue of guys waiting beside the bed, all with their cocks out stroking them, waiting their turn to fuck her and she immediately floods, my cock looses all friction and my balls get saturated and she comes within a few seconds.
I guess a lot of women are turned on by fantasies of being unfaithful or at the memory of an instant of wild abandon somewhere in their past.

 

Yes, it IS a guy thing.

 

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We can be internet friends, I doubt I will ever be in Vegas.

 

It's All Good with Me!

 

My spouse has had a couple of affairs. One was with a former boyfriend several months after we were married. Another was with a coworker and was partially my fault. I immersed myself in my career and she was lonely. Some times shit happens and she had an affair. None of these ever turned me on. I took them as what they were given that she can do what pleases her as long as my needs are met. I've done the same so I figure it all evens out.

 

When we were in college, my wife was free to date others until we became engaged. I was at a different university and only saw her once or twice a month. She not only dated others, she had sex with them, which was not part of the deal. I only suspected it until she told me all the stories after we married I would have been terribly jealous when it was happening, but it really turned me on when she finally told me.

 

We change over the years. I feel the same way.

 

I think that us men tend to mellow as we age (I can't speak for the females) when I was young say 18 to 30 I would have been very jealous of my partners being chatted up, or any other sexual situation, like dancing together with another guy in a slow waltz, with him crabbing hold of her ass. As for having sex with another guy that would have been a no-no. As I have aged I have turned a corner in my attitude, so sharing with others and in any group situation that could arise with my wife I really enjoy. In fact having been involved with many MFM's and other groupings so I actively encourage my wife to play with others. Now as we become oldies my wife seems less and less interested in doing so. I now have become resentful of others who continue to play around despite their advanced years. Such a pity as my wife is sexy, great looking and always encountering other males chatting her up, however, she has no interest in taking things further! My, how the worm has turned.

 

We mature and settle into a more secure mindset. No longer is the testosterone rush pushing us to sexual prowess as we were when young. As young men we were much like wild bulls trying to show the females in the herd we will produce bigger and stronger offspring. As we age we become more secure and confidant with our life and surroundings including lifestyle choices and not getting upset if or when another man fucks our women. In fact some of us take pride in knowing the woman of the other mans desires stays in our house long after the fucking is over.

 

Dang right it does!

 

Sounds familiar