Yeah, I guess that's kind of the problem. She's definitely not the most enthusiastic sex partner I've ever had. She rarely initiates sex herself, and while she seems to enjoy it, I'm left with the feeling that sex is mostly for me. My previous girlfriend was very tight - just inserting it into her would make her body spasm. Believe me - I've thought about this a lot. Typically when we have sex, either she'll use her vibrator while I suck on her tits until she cums, or I'll finger her clit until she cums before I penetrate her. I dunno - would getting her off with a sleeve really be much different than a vibrator? It would, in a way I guess - I'd know that if I had a much larger cock then she'd enjoy it more.
:-( Be honest and communicate with her about this. You maybe surprised as to the changes which may present it as a new adventure and share new approaches to mutually satisfying each other! Wish for change for you both!!;-)
My fwb was dating a guy with a cock about 9 inches when we started our encounters. She broke up with him after a few months of our fucking. I know her for years and her past lovers many of whom were larger than me. Same with my fb. I never cared as long as I got the pussy and satisfied them as best I could which I guess was successful because I am still with them and they are not. The thought of those big units inside them was always a turn on for me. My wife was the blow job queen in college and sucked many of my friends so it was the same as well which was a turn on then knowing she had their cocks and cum so I guess for me it was always a turn on but I respect for some it can be stressful
Wife’s ex was huge. She said it hurt and he didn’t know how to use it. I’m average and she worships it. I can get a bj or have sx anytime I ask. I’m blessed
My gfs ex wasn’t huge but ejaculates an enormous volume of cum, to the point it’s almost painful for him and his whole body shakes as he squirts repeatedly. She said he’d seen doctors about it. She said that was one reason she’d never sucked him til he came. In her pussy was fine but she says it flooded everywhere.
OMG I would pay good money for a video of him doing that. Massive ejaculations are a huge turn-on for me. And the porn sites are filled with faked garbage.
I know for certain my last two exes had previous boyfriends who were very well endowed. They also confessed that I am smaller than any of their previous lovers. Some were definitely above average but many were more on the average size. However I have a very small penis ( especially when soft) I am decidedly boysize as opposed to mansize. I am fairly certain that most if not all my exes ( short term, one offs, semi-longer term ) also downsized when they crossed paths with my tiny todger. Out of this I developed my sph fetish so my historical embarrassments and sporadic humiliations morphed into a source of arousal both post fetish and pre fetish ( recalling my history which was once decidedly not ego-boosting) I entered into a more open cuck style sex life with the afforementioned exes and I actually saw the size of a couple of their former lovers. I also was a direct voyeur in some of their hookups and very much enjoyed watching much better endowed guys fucking them. I have not been in a regular relationsip for over a year now but have had a few one night stands. My main source of sexual relief has been through forums like this one or porn videos. However I have been extremely lucky to have stumbled into a long distance e mail sex banter with a woman I previously only knew as a member of my social it has morphed into a bit of a drive by sex play after she came over to Europe from North America for a month long vacation. She is coming over here again in a couple of weeks to do some more travelling around Europe and this time there may be a cuck style threesome happening. She does not have a regular partner but there is another guy over here who is potentially willing to play with us. (I know he has a huge cock because I have seen it when he fucked one of my exes)