Why would my wife enjoy anal and do with me and a toy and also ejoy being rimmed then all the sudden not want it anymore. She use to cum SO HARD when i was in her ass and magic wand on her clit. Or a vibranting plug in her ass and me and the wand doing her pussy. And she used to really like it when she got out of the shower and come into the bedroom and get in doggy with her head all the way on the bed. I would spread her open and lick her pussy her taint and tongue her ass and she whimpered. She always told me she cant cum from penetration but told me she has felt close when doing anal. My goal was to make it happen but she all the sudden started squirming away when i got near her asshole. I asked her what was wrong and she wouldn’t say much. Not even rimming her anymore. I dont know whats going on. Every time I bring it up she acts irritated.
I would say, respect the decision. Tastes change. What she liked yesterday, she may not like today. There are any number of reasons. Don't fret over it, let her come back and ask for it again, when she is ready. Don't push. Also, very important, don't act like she has become a disappointment, if you do, she will know and everything will become less attractive to her. If anything, focus more on what she does still like. Make her feel like her desires are the most important thing to you. It will be worth it.