Why would you say no to sex?

Fair enough-you've heard all the wonderful things.
But everything has two sides 'bird-so before you do ANYTHING,get the other side of the story. Talk to those for whom it was a thing they'll regret all their days because they were too eager. I'm not trying to be your dad here-I'm just hoping you won't be overly keen and make a mistake. Ok,I wish you the very best,angel. I really hope it goes as you dream it will. :love:

 

Wow! Ummm, your very intriguing NZ, you definately catch my attention from what you write that's for sure.

You are right, I should say what goes, and I will. I am now interested though in what older more experienced men would do compared to a not so experienced younger guy.

Or maybe it's all the same, I don't know. I just don't want my boyfriend to cum right away as soon as he enters me, I imagine he will be very excited and turned on.

 

RE: Older men: It depends if you'd want him to be the dominant one from the start or you? If you choose him, he'd need to take everything slowly so that you don't feel uncomfortable. You could ask him to undress you slowly & then if you wanted to do the same for him if you felt comfortable being with him. Then let him seduce you slowly with pressuring into anything you didn't want. Don't let him rush you to have intercourse but to make sure you tell him what's exceptable & whats not!
He should explore your body all over first & let you decide what you want next. Because you enjoy giving / recieving oral, he may do it in a totally sensual way & without rough licking. He may like you to take over & be the dominant one to? Then you get to straddle him, so you have full control over when & how you let him penetrate you. I'm getting aroused now - lol. I see you don't allow private messages to be sent to you so you won't find out how I (aged 52 & 1/2) would seduce you?

 

that's probably exactly why she doesn't allow private messages to be sent to her.

 

You are right, a young boyfriend may be so eager to fuck you that he may cum very quickly, just a few pumps after entering. An older man would have more foreplay experience, and most likely make you cum before penetration. He would also be like a 'coach' and treat you tenderly when he starts, instead of just pumping away.

I like to look at the woman's eyes and see how she wants to be fucked based on her reactions. I can go soft and also very hard and fast when the woman wants that.

How long have you wanted to try it with someone older than you?

 

If she allowed an older guy to message her & to tell her how he'd seduce her, she'd find out in a a much more private way rather than in the forums where it's for everyone else to see.
She's got that option (private messaging) thou. So If she sends me one - that's her decision?

 

NZ. I would prefer the man to be more dominate than me, seeing how I'm not experienced, but I'd be open to both.
I like your ideas, and btw, I think I do allow PM's but I think I have to be a payed member to have access, but I will check again.

I am open to hearing more because I would really like to learn everything I can before I go ahead with losing my Virginity.

 

I like what you said there..
As far as older men, it's been on my mind recently, I somehow feel drawn to them, I'm attracted to confidence, and I also feel a little like I'd like to be there sweet little treasure that they absolutely adore. Does that make sense, or does it sound lame?

 

I seems no payment is needed? In your profile, it shows you have choosen not to accept private messages? So wether you can change that option or not?

 

Thanks PB, so sweet you are.

 

I can't figure it out, I'm still trying but I can't find the box! Lol

 

u have to be registered here for like 5 days first

 

Oh, okay, that's why. Thanks!

 

The sooner those 5 days are up , the better ! Then you can message me.

 

Yes, I can't wait to hear more form you. You can teach me what to need to know.

There is one box there that says, accept emails from members, but isn't email different than PM's?

 

I think those emails would come thru your ordinary ones & thats not what you'd want others in your household to find LOL!
Private messages come only thru the forum where only the one you send one to is able to read them? Hope someone else will reply to your query as well?
And how many days now do you have to wait now out of the 5 required so you can message?

 

jesus christ man

 

It makes a lot of sense. You want it to be very special, and you want to be treated right the first time. Many women have told me that their first experience was horrible, just a quickie where the guy cums quick.

By the way, I lost my virginity in my early 20's. I was 23 years old. You may not have guessed that from the things I post:devil: I am now 43 and have learned a lot of things along the way. I can totally see why many women want to do it with an older guy. There's also a lot of research which states that women are much more emotionally mature than a guy the same age as them, even in their 20's.

Would your boyfriend freak out if he found out you fucked an older guy? Would he break up with you? Or do you think it would turn him on?

 

I don't say no to sex, but I'll say no to this thread. It never ceases to amaze me how I post one slightly OT thing and it gets ripped in a microsecond, but here we have about 5 pages of stuff that has little if anything to do with the topic.