Why would you say no to sex?

Wow, that's cool that you were both virgins. Thanks for sharing your story!
So if you put your finger in, wouldn't that break the skin inside?

 

No, she used tampons for her monthlys & that broke the hymen instead.
It's common. So if you used a vibrator, it would do the same but because its not a natural penis, it wont ejaculate either & a penis may feel a lot better than your vibrator. You could always get him to use your vibrator to give you anal pleasure with - just place a condom over thev vibrator first.
You may enjoy that as well as oral - just use plenty of lube & you'll be good to go! You'll still be vaginal virgin !
I dont think (in my opinion) that using a vibrator vaginally is loosing your virginity - you are only using it as substitute to the real thing. You may break your skin - you may have done it already if you use tampons or unless you use pads instead? The real thing is much more arousing to see & feel going in than a vibrator but I could be wrong?

 

you have it backwards. you say no to sex and that's why you're a virgin.

 

I don't understand if u do oral sex what's the difference unless ur like a child in which case stop sucking and do ur hw lol. Some times on very rare occasions I just don't want sex and I want to snuggle and a lot of people won't let u. they just want to fuck which makes me like turned off cause I feel like an object and not a person and if Its just going to be about sex then why am I only doing it with you. I can have sex everyday but not good sex cause after good sex I need a few days for my body to mend.

 

Well I haven't ever stuck anything in there, nothing more than a tongue anyway.
I'm not ready for anal either, I don't think anyway?

 

Well, the difference is I havent been broken yet! Lol

 

How old are u

 

Early 20's

 

So your've never placed your finger inside yourself either - not even just to feel what your like down there?

 

I've rubbed my clit, and barely dipped my finger, I don't want to break my hymen, not sure how far in it is.

 

Why do u covet your hymen so

 

Because its special and sacred and it means that no one has entered me.

I'm saving the break for the most special person.

 

Ur going to be dissapointed

 

Why?

 

No one will ever be as special as you have imagined ur perfect guy to be that's not to say u should go screw around but u might be waiting along time

 

Well, I meant Marrage, but you never know, I might just give in soon to my boyfriend, I'm dying to know how it feels, and he is special to me.

 

Well don't feel obligated

 

I won't.

 

Good girl

 

Just don't allow your boyfriend to enter you fast - just take the time to let yourself become very wet & him & then let him penetrate you very slowly - or it may be painful otherwise Don't rush things & you'll enjoy it even more! Use lube if you want plenty of penetrations one after another later.